Need a Little advise

[Tasherz]

Hi all!! 

 

I need a Little advise, pun intended..

 

I am really new here and I am making a lot of new friends which is amazing! And I am meeting some daddies and being friends with them. Originally my plan was to learn lots and try to understand then look for a daddy but now I feel I have to ask...

 

How do you know when you are ready to find a daddy?

 

I feel like I wont truly understand without one (as I have never had one before) but I also don't want to push a daddy's patience because I'm so new.

 

Any advise is good advice! Please help?

 

Thanks yous!!

 

Tasha 

[RavenclawPrincess]

I'm going to argue that you'll be ready when the right person comes along. Don't bother with people outside of friendship unless you've had a chance to build trust and establish that compatibility is there. Friends can help you learn via conversations, and when the right partner is on your radar it'll feel right to go for gaining experience with them. 

[EvieTheOne]

I'll second Princess in that compatibility is the main factor in this. A compatible Daddy will feel like coming home to both of you, will feel safe and freeing, will feel like everything has slotted into place and he is all that you needed from love.

It might sound corny but then I get mushy and gushing when it comes to this dynamic.

[Tasherz]

Thanks you Princess and Evie! 

 

Both of those make sense, for me I am just worried that if I find a daddy too soon he won't be interest in the type of little i turn out to be... Not sure if that makes sense 

[MissPattch]

Hey Natashers

 

Finding a Daddy is just like finding any other type of romantic / intimate partner. You have to put in the work to get to know them first, don't be in a hurry to have a daddy just because you are little. Wait for the one that doesn't want to rush you, and makes you feel at ease, like Evie and Princess already said. Often times, we rush forward because we want, and find out that, after the initial euphoria is gone, we really aren't all that compatible... so if it doesn't feel right for you, or him, then its ok to politely decline and carry on with your search <3 

[Alaskan Daddy]

here are some questions I have for you. Do you know what aspects of DDLG you are interested in and make it part of your life? I would ask a few daddy's about how they care for a little and what they are looking for in a little. As a daddy and when I talk to a new little I ask her lots of questions about how she feels about many aspects of DDLG and compare that information as to who I am as a daddy. After figuring out what you want from DDLG reIationship I would make a list of what you want from a daddy. I hope this gets you started. If you want any more info please you can contact me and I would be glad to help the best I can

[Tasherz]

here are some questions I have for you. Do you know what aspects of DDLG you are interested in and make it part of your life? I would ask a few daddy's about how they care for a little and what they are looking for in a little. As a daddy and when I talk to a new little I ask her lots of questions about how she feels about many aspects of DDLG and compare that information as to who I am as a daddy. After figuring out what you want from DDLG reIationship I would make a list of what you want from a daddy. I hope this gets you started. If you want any more info please you can contact me and I would be glad to help the best I can

Thank you for the advise! I have been working on trying to do something like this but this helps clear it up a bit better for me!