Moody daddy help

[Little_abbi]

Daddy came home all annoyed and moody, he wanted alone time and gently pushed me away when i try to cheer him up. Its been hours now and he just moody but he still want to be alone and doesnt want to be disturbed. Its 2030 and we havent had dinner and daddy is still in lone moody mode. Help or advice please

[Little kaiya]

Give him the alone time he has asked you to give him. Sometimes people just need some alone time.

[Little_abbi]

Im just worried and im not allowed to cook, so i cant make dinner to cheer him up

[EvieTheOne]

Hi ❤️

I just wrote a piece with this exact topic in mind. In my writing I mention an important aspect, I think, to good communication between the parties...we need to let our partners know that we need that time otherwise we leave them in "no man's land", so to say, because they don't know what's happening or what's wrong and so they worry! I think that having alone time is totally cool, but we need to tell our partners that it's not them we're avoiding, and when we're ready, we'll discuss it in depth. I find it very important to be taken through what's happening because I get anxious and I close down as well, and think of the worst. In this sense, I'm totally with you, I understand how it must feel, and I hope he'll communicate with you as soon as! ❤️

[AsleepAndDreaming]

I have only one suggestion....

 

Try to go into little space. Get a blankie and a stuffie and try and sit in his lap and see if it brings out the Daddy in him?

[Little_abbi]

Thank you for everyone's help. I was pushing on to little space when i ask what wrong and he explain he not moody, he was and then just needed alone time. He is now up and making dinner.

[SmolAetherr]

I have only one suggestion....

 

Try to go into little space. Get a blankie and a stuffie and try and sit in his lap and see if it brings out the Daddy in him?

that is a pretty selfish suggestion, op's partner told op he wanted to be alone, doing the complete opposite of that is disrespecting boundaries and being selfish quite frankly

[LittlePupRune]

My Sir has done similar things. What I’ve started doing is letting him know I’m available if he needs someone (to talk or cuddle, whatever he needs), making sure I provide water/food unobtrusively, and give him the space he asks for. Sometimes you just have to wait. If it takes a long time you could give a gentle reminder occasionally, but pushing usually doesn’t work and can be seen as selfish.

[Guest Daddy-Tom]

You need to keep yourself fed and watered regardless of rules