Eeek Im so nervous! Were you?

[Princess Eris]

Hi

I'm new here and new to ddlg.

I'm in a committed relationship but we both have different needs so a close friend of ours is allowed to be my Daddy.

We've been talking ddlg online for months and it's been going really well and now he's coming over tomorrow so we can ddlg in person for the first time and I'm so nervous!

As a switch I've only ever previously found myself in a dom position full of confidence but now I feel like a shy nervous little girl.

What have your experiences been? How were you your first time in little space with a CG?

[Guest QueenJellybean]

as someone who is primarily a Domme outside of this kink (i know right, you probably can't imagine it!) 

i definitely can relate to this feeling! 

 

i have two Daddies, and being vulnerable with them is super scary!

but also really, really rewarding. 

i always get a little nervous when i surrender that part of myself to them. 

i still remember the first time my voice dipped into that smaller, vulnerable place with Daddy on a call & everything just

tensed up. 

*little shivers* 

 

you certainly aren't alone.

[Tasherz]

Hi!

My suggestion is to just try to be in the moment and not over think it. When you are in the moment and enjoying it all the worries about it will fade away and instead you'll be focused on being his little.

 

Hope that helps some!

[DaddyDom3238]

Hi, 

Coming from a Daddy's perspective, I have had some littles in the past that were new to the community and to be little as a whole whether it was because they were a switch or they had finally embraced this side of themselves. I agree with Natashers, do not over think it and do not fall in the trap of thinking you need to act a certain way or do a certain thing to be "little" with your Daddy. It is your Daddy's responsibility to help you get to that place where you are his little girl. Do not be afraid to talk to him and tell him what you need to get to your little space. It might be sitting in his lap as he holds you and rubs your head, maybe reading you a story, or giving you a sippy cup or a bottle while he rocks you. Everyone's dynamic is different and everyone gets into their little space in different ways. Your nerves will go away after you experience this with your Daddy a few times and I wish you the best of luck!!