[Guest loociex]

^{hello !}

^{my daddy and i are very new to ddlg and have only really just introduced it into our relationship. we've set out boundaries + rules and things have been going fairly well with a great deal of communication and patience from both of us. but, i feel like he only is getting properly into domspace when im in the 'look' of being little or when it comes to me being bratty & him getting to give punishment or when it can be involved with 'play' time.} 

^{he is super caring and watches cartoons with me in littlespace and tries to facilitate me but i cant help but feel like doing other little activities i see on this site. is him only really acting like a true daddy during play or punishment something normal to newbies? are there any good activities we can start off with that maybe aren't too much for newbies? any advice for a very new ddlg couple?} 

Edited February 11, 2020 by loociex

[RavenclawPrincess]

Keep in mind, if this is new for you and your daddy then it takes time to find your way and settle into the ideal dynamic. If you love and trust each other, I don't see a problem. Y'all talk things out and renegotiate as often as it's needed and you'll be fine

[Guest QueenJellybean]

welcome, friend! 

i'm glad you found us here! hopefully, we'll be able to help.

 

it sounds like you & your partner are moving at a pace that is working for you, which is the most important thing in a relationship.

don't let benchmarkers or stereotypes dictate how your relationship should look. 

there is no should. there is only what works for you both. 

 

that being said, here are a few great starting points for threads to explore:

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/51-general-advice-for-new-daddies/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/34554-making-littlespace-your-space/?hl=activities&do=findComment&comment=178557

[EvieTheOne]

As RavenclawPrincess said.. it's a journey..and it's all good as long as you love each other, you'll work it out to be good for both.

The most important thing we'll learn at the end of the road is what an incredible journey we had together, and whatever seems imperfect now, we'll remember it as a miracle, as our creation, especially if you'll have kids as well. Be open, honest, as present as you can, and that's already better than most of us are capable of at any given moment.xx