And just like that, it's over...

[PriincessTori]

hey guys.

 

have you ever had it where you find somebody who seems so perfect & amazing, you spend days talking to them all the time, getting to know them and everything is going so great...

 

... but then all of a sudden, something happens, they say or do something and it hits you, they're not who you thought they were and you feel alone again?   

 

i hate putting myself out there for this very reason, people can be so judgemental in this life - why does everything have to do with if you're pretty or not? for me personally, somebodies personality is 10x more attractive than their looks; it's just such a shame other people aren't that way too!

 

i guess i wanted to say: don't let anybody put you down because of how you look.

 

you are beautiful

you are badass!

you are a queen!

 

 

x x x 

Edited February 9, 2020 by PriincessTori

[Guest QueenJellybean]

i'm so sorry that you had this experience, but i'm so glad to see your attitude & outlook coming from it!

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdFNdPJT4dM

[Pupperoo]

I wholeheartedly agree and I never saw anyone put into words what you just described. It's amazing how one word or one comment can make you feel that alone again, make someone that you looked as a friend seem like a perfect stranger. It happens far more often than I'd like to admit.

I would never comment on someones looks other than to ask about something, like a piercing or a tattoo. There'd never be judgement. Unfortunately I get a lot of comments and questions regarding me being trans and how I look in regards to that very often, and it just kills whatever was happening. 

I do hope you find that someone that never makes you feel alone. I'm cheering for you ♥

[Little kaiya]

There are always going to be people who put looks above personality sadly; however, there will also always be a lot of people who will like someone for WHO they are versus what they look like.

 

As a genderfluid, male sex but demimale/female gender, I get a fair bit of people judging me based on what they see versus who I am. My solution, surrounds myself with people who love me for me. I have an amazing Wife and Daddy/boyfriend who love me for me regardless of my body or looks.

 

Yes, it hurts when people say things like that but the positive side is you now know who they really are and can go on and find people who are actually worth your time and will love you for you, not just some physical attribute.