my little problem

[AliAliOxenFree]

So I've known this guy for 4 years and we've been really close for 3. He's asked to date me before but I answered no because I'm scared of scaring him off with what I'm into. We've made jokes about spanking and I've made hints that I'm into bdsm but we never reeaally talk about it si I'm not sure if he really gets it. I feel like he could be the perfect daddy for me (well he has a few flaws but we could work on it) but I'm not sure how to properly propose the idea without it being to awkward- which will be hard considering I'm the queen of awkward.. So I'm wondering if I should just not say anything or if I should/do say something, how would I say it?

[princess-mel]

Honestly, the best way to do it is to just be completely honest about it. Tell him its what you like and that you think he would be a good Daddy.

[verticality]

I would suggest sitting together looking at Tumblr's would be a great idea - Pick a few that are more M/s and gauge the reaction.

Then move on to the cutie lg walls and see his reaction to the shift from "master / Sir" to "Daddy" keep everything light hearted (I know it's really hard to do when your so enthusiastic to share what you have found)

 

Prepare for the conversation but don't lead with it - show examples of littles dressed up and even some of the colouring pics.

 

Understand it's a whole new world to a lot of people and guys need time to work this out

 

Good luck

 

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