Sylveon Posted February 6, 2020 Report Posted February 6, 2020 Hello! I was hoping to find some advice. I have a caregiver, and we both enjoy our dynamic a lot. But she often has trouble getting herself into the Caregiving Headspace. She is always sweet to me when I am little, but I can tell a big difference when she is or isn't feeling it. We are both very new to age regression stuff. I have found things that make me feel little, but we aren't quite sure what would help a Caregiver. Maybe Caregiving is just a totally different thing, and I am just assuming there is a Headspace similar to the Little Headspace? My question is, what are some common ways to help someone find her Caregiving Headspace? 2
Alaskan Daddy Posted February 7, 2020 Report Posted February 7, 2020 As a caregiver I can remember my very first little. My heart and energy was in the relationship but my actions said something different to her. I had a conversation with her old daddy and he steered me as to how to care for her in little space. My point is that, maybe you can have a conversation with your caregiver as to what you would want her to do differently, (you may have to be very specific). The most important point was that I needed to respond to her as if I was responding a child. I needed to hold and hug and do different things that you would do with a child to help her feel loved and cared for and safe. With some of my actions I would always ask her how my actions made her feel. I am sure there are plenty of caregivers who would help her out (me included) if she had any questions at all. I hope this helps and good luck
Guest QueenJellybean Posted February 7, 2020 Report Posted February 7, 2020 moderator note: moving to Caregiver Cafe. also, check out the pinned topics "Healthy Caregiving".
chateautal Posted February 7, 2020 Report Posted February 7, 2020 I can only talk from my own experience, but maybe some things are in common with your own CG, or might work for your relationship? For me, caregiving is definitely a headspace (or at least, a 'mode' which I can enter in more stronger at some times than other). Spontaneously, it's usually triggered as a reaction to someone else being little around me - but only if I was quite relaxed beforehand. As for more planned play-sessions, I found 'rituals' extremely helpful. A play session would start by me changing my little into a onesie and diaper, and performing some 'maintenance' OTK spanking. Because it was 'ritual', it was much easier to do as a cold start (i.e. I didn't have to think about it that much) - but by the time we were finished with these actions (well, really, nearly as soon as we started), I would definitely be in the right head-space. It's almost like a warm-up to exercise . Moreover, the act gave a nice clear demarcation between "normal" and "CG/L" interactions with my partner at the time. 1
RavenclawPrincess Posted February 8, 2020 Report Posted February 8, 2020 I agree that having rituals/some sort of a routine goes a really long way! I highly recommend talking to your CG about giving that a try and work together to figure out what will work best in that regard.
Pinku Posted February 8, 2020 Report Posted February 8, 2020 Just simple, daddy I had accident and giving him a new diaper to change.
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