Daddies/mummies parading as agony aunts online

[EvieTheOne]

Hidden affairs. I was talking about hidden affairs, rationalized as help, and I gave as concrete an example as I could, based on personal experience.

Thank you, I'm sure this forum will have lots to teach me about the lifestyle and human nature, as such.

[RavenclawPrincess]

To be fair, sometimes we get caught up in our own thoughts and express those thoughts not so clearly when writing about it in the heat of the moment. It seems to me that Evie did clarify what she meant once it was clear that others weren’t following what she was getting at initially. I think we are all in agreement that friends and healthy conversations are good and doing wrong by people is bad.

[LittleCelticLass]

After re-reading the entire thread a few times, I have to agree with Raven. Sometimes, tone and intent are lost in the written word, without the support of inflection, facial expressions, and body language. My apologies for misunderstanding some of the context and misreading some of content.

We may not agree on what the core intent of the Forum's community is, with regaurd to finding partners, but I feel fairly sure we all agree that sneaking around, hiding things from a partner(s) one is supposedly committed to is bad, as is misrepresenting yourself to others.

We're a family here at the Forum, and family doesn't always see eye to eye, but it does always support eachother.

 

Have a great day,

Lass

[Guest QueenJellybean]

moderator note: 

 

this topic has devolved enough from the original OP's intent, i think, 

and the most recent comments are a wonderful note to end on; 

 

a reminder that healthy debate is great here at the Forum, but personalizing our remarks and circling points isn't helpful to the open learning environment and family we want this place to be. 

 

therefore, i'm going to close this thread and leave off with the themes of open communication & honesty being paramount in all relationship-types.