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I'm just curious, is that a thing you can be?

I mean, I still feel Daddy-ish but I'm also very submissive (esp. sexually). I guess it's the thing of like pouty, bratty and stubborn littles could certainly wrap me around their little finger. Or flutter their eyelids and get me to cave if I say "no" to them.

I'm not explaining this right, just kinda confused, anyone know any similar dynamics?

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To be honest, it sounds like you might be a bit of a switch.

Switches go back and forth between the dominant and submissive role.

That said, I've seen plenty of littles that clearly are in control of the relationship.

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Sounds like you might be a switch Myself and my partner are both switches we lean towards submission but can take up being in the Dominet role when need be

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I'm not sure I'm explaining this right haha, but yeah I'm definitely a switch, but recently I've still been like Dom-Daddy and Sub-Daddy instead of the usual switching between Dom-Daddy and Sub-Little, if that makes sense. I was just wondering if there were any more people who felt like their caregiver role was more submissive?

 

idk, i am very sleepy haha

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You're saying that you'd more or less like to serve and spoil and take more of a submissive role with your little while still operating in Daddy space, yes?

 

Of course it can be done :) my Daddy and I switch in this way sometimes and it works out well for us when we do it. I don't see why it couldn't be a permanent arrangement for the right couple either. Heck, I'm sure there are a lot of littles out there that would go for it hard. :)

Guest XxRWBYxX
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i am new but i honestly think im a switch but its nothing wrong in being a sub sometimes even when u are the dom daddy, u get to see both sides of the fence to say,

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You can be whatever you want! Don't feel like you/your relationship has to fit within any boxes (unless you and your SO made said box lol)

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I think the idea of a dynamic where the little can act Dominant, and twist the Big around their little finger, is super cute! And I'm sure you'll find someone out there who doesn't always want Daddy to be the one in charge...

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 As others have already pointed out, the dynamic is whatever you and your partner want it to be. I happen to be a very lenient Daddy with my little, I give her lots of space to make decisions for herself and sometimes give in to her desires if she pouts just right :wub: Ours is a very interesting hodge-podge of roles. I also have a submissive side to me, which is my little side incidently, and I am very fortunate to have a partner who can sometimes allow that part of me to come out and play. That was something I didn't expect, because I believed that being a Daddy meant having to be in charge all of the time.  My little and I have worked it out so that we both get what we need most from one another, and we have done this through communicating openly with one another and being honest. I can't possibly stress just how important it is to really open up with your partner and talk about everything with one another.

 

 So, there is no mold or standard by which you need to judge yourself by. Just be yourself, be honest with your partner, and embrace whatever dynamic feels right for both of you.

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Guest Little_Miss
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Yahhh. I can be quite dominant as a little but other times I can be more lenient. So I need a daddy that would understand that :3 Definitely are submissive daddies and dominant littles. The levels of dominance and submissiveness varies in everyone too.

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