Alozalia Posted January 31, 2020 Report Posted January 31, 2020 So, I’m a big person, i weigh 235 and I’m pretty happy with everything, as a sex worker online my niche is fat fetish people so I’ve gotten used to that, but until today I hadn’t experienced anyone into that t of thing in real life and it affected me pretty badly. Like, this stuff is in my everyday life online but for some reason dealing with it in person just struck a bad nerve and i feel like I’m spiraling down a negative hole. What happened was, I was talking to a guy for about a week, we made plans to meet up this Sunday and today he made a joke of how I’m the biggest girl he’s ever had a date with, and I told him that comment made me feel insecure, which led to him talking about how “I shouldn’t worry, it was cool because bigger women were better anyways, that he’s heard they’re squishier and tighter”. I told him i was upset and ended the conversation. I don’t think I’m going to continue talking to him. I know he was an a—hole but i cant change how its affected me, I’ve struggled with anorexia and purging in the past and its taken years to be happy with my body and its like this one conversation is sending me right back to that mindset, I don’t know, anyways I guess I’m just looking to let this out and get some emotional support or something, I’m just feeling like trash at the moment.
Guest LittleMissMissy Posted January 31, 2020 Report Posted January 31, 2020 (edited) Hey! Hey you! You are beautiful! Don't let any jerk wad tell you or make you feel differently. I can relate, I was told once fat chicks pick the best restaurants. We know good food! That's a inappropriate comment make to anyone! Edited January 31, 2020 by LittleMissMissy 1
Guest Kaori Posted January 31, 2020 Report Posted January 31, 2020 First of all, Fuck that guy. He's a douche and you're better off without him. Second, you know your gorgeous but I'm going to tell you again anyway, You. Are. Gorgeous. And don't let stupid douche bags bring you down. I'm a big girl myself so on a level I definitely understand that it can be a struggle to be happy in your own skin. But truly you're gorgeous and you have so many other amazing qualities that make you so fucking out of that assholes league he doesn't deserve to get to know you and discover how amazing you are since all he decided to do was be a fucking shallow dick. My inbox is always open if you wanna talk or vent! 1
Guest QueenJellybean Posted January 31, 2020 Report Posted January 31, 2020 i know it's hard to see in the moment, but you are more than your size. i'm a big girl too, & i definitely get the feeling. it's a learning curve, & i'm always having bad days, but. we can do this. 1
Alozalia Posted February 1, 2020 Author Report Posted February 1, 2020 I just want to thank everyone for your replies, they made me feel a little better
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