What to Say

[Guest JusticeBanner]

Hello I have recently had a bad experience with a man on this website that calls himself a Daddy we talked for a few hours and he called himself trying to "get me off"  and that made me uncomfortable so I told him I didn't feel well and I didn't think that it was the right time anyways and he kept trying and trying so I just deleted him as a friend and I guess I somehow added him as a friend again and he said " I'm glad you requested me as a friend again but why did you delete me in the first place" and I don't know what to say because I don't want to be rude and say because I didn't want to talk sexually with you and you tried to force me to so I honestly don't know what to say to him. 

[The Perennial Princess]

First off, I'm sorry that you had this experience period. We try to keep this site as safe as possible at all times and that includes trying to be proactive with weeding out members who are strictly looking for online, sexual kink fulfillment and achieve such by engaging in predatory behavior. Secondly, you should not feel at all uncomfortable about deleting this individual. They were in the wrong, not you. You are free to state your limits and are at liberty to establish boundaries. If this person couldn't respect those boundaries, then they couldn't respect you and obviously had one intention.

 

 This person made you feel ill at ease so you shouldn't regret your decision at all. I would advise deleting them again and not further engaging them if that is your wish. They clearly did not respect you so you should not feel obligated to respectfully "send them off." Please don't ever feel rude or bad about following your intuition and refrainig from behavior that makes you uncomfortable. That's your right and they encroached upon you. If you truly feel bad about not answering, you could drop a one liner to them, stating your feelings, and then delete them. Or, you could potentially request a member of staff to do so for you.

 

It's up to you and should always be.

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

Is there a block function on here? If so, use it. He is intimidating you. You feel uncomfortable. Stay away, simple as that. He's not a daddy.

[Guest littlemissragamuffin]

There's no law saying you have to reply to him or even explain yourself. Just don't talk to him or simply tell him he makes you uncomfortable and block him

[BabyKittenBelle]

Trust me it's always a good idea to steer clear of individuals like that.. I spent years with an abusive "Daddy" and if he makes you uncomfortable now don't talk to him

[Guest Daddy's☆treasure]

Just ignore the message, block (if you can) and delete. Sorry you went though this. *hugz*

[MrBonesWildRide]

Is there a block function on here? If so, use it. He is intimidating you. You feel uncomfortable. Stay away, simple as that. He's not a daddy.

 

There is a block feature. Blocking allows you to stop seeing a users messages, posts, signature, and private chat messages. More than enough to keep any user away. Unfriending them also serves this purpose.