Little space without a Daddy

[Kittemptress]

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I only posted this for attention.

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So I am very emotionally driven. Especially regarding my little side. And my Daddy broke up with me and wants nothing to do with me now. I want to be able to go to Little Space without imagining that I’m doing it *for him*. Any tips? When I don’t have a Daddy.... I just go into a vanilla mindset and can’t really get to that place.

 

I have a lot of internal growth to do before I get into another relationship so I’m not looking for anything.

 

Sincerely,

Heartbroken

Edited February 3, 2020 by Alittlejigsaw

[violetbambi]

haiii 

 

im so sorry to hear about ur breakup, i hope ur as okay as u can be. i've been a little for about a year and a half and in that time i haven't had a long-term daddy, so i've gotten pretty good at handling littlespace by myself, although i still know how hard it can be after you've gotten used to having ur daddy there for u. i found that i had to take as much time as i needed to first re-learn how to be 'big' me independently before i could be little for myself. for me, forcing littlespace actually makes it harder to regress, so i just tried to accept that it would come when i was ready. it might take quite a while for u to reach that point depending on how long ur relationship was, mine were only short lived so a plus side was the short(ish) recovery time. basically what i'm trying to say is, it's easier to be little without a daddy if ur used to being grown up without a relationship. so i recommend taking as much time as u need to be okay without him, and hopefully littlespace will come easily to u when u feel ur in a place mentally and emotionally where u can handle it. 

 

i hope this in some way helped and i hope u feel so so much better soon ♡

Edited January 26, 2020 by violetbambi

[Guest QueenJellybean]

there are a lot of resources already on our site for solo littles. 

please be sure to check if your topic has already been answering before posting.

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/6341-activities-for-a-solo-little/?hl=solo+little
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/38406-all-the-single-littles/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/24797-when-littles-have-to-entertain-themselves/?hl=solo+little&do=findComment&comment=128259