How to get over being anxious to be little around my daddy?

[Guest LizzieLoo]

So I have only known I was little for about a year now. I haven't really had a daddy until now. We have been together for almost 8 months and I have been little before in text and some in person. I just can't help but being embarrassed and anxious to be little with my daddy. I feel like he might think it's stupid and when I try to say something the words just get caught in my throat. I trust and love him and he loves me being little. But I don't really know how to work through it so I can actually just be little with him...any advice?

[Guest ittybee]

I know the feeling!

I was able to be little over text easily, but when it came to calls/actually meeting I got super nervous and anxious. I had similar worries as you.

The thing that I found helped me was pretending I wasn't scared and pretending I was this super brave and confident person. It's a lot easier said than done I know, but over time I saw my daddy's reaction and slowly became genuinely ok with being little around him and understood that he got it and wasn't judging me for being little.

I'm not gonna lie to you and say it was an overnight thing, coz it wasn't, but I believe that you can do it

Oh! And if you struggle talking about it with him, maybe write it in a letter? That way you can get everything down you want, and won't muddle it up!

Best of luck ❤

[Guest LizzieLoo]

Yes! It is super easy in text. He says a lot he can't really tell when I'm little or normal; he says he considers me both all the time which confuses me.

[Guest Littlebabyunicornx]

I've been with my daddy almost two years and I still get anxious around my daddy been little around him but that's because of my abusive ex she hated me been a little and it's not daddy's fault he always encourages me to be little but my ex made me feel so crap about been a little