I shove my little aside but how bring back....

[Weird_Kitten]

[Alozalia]

I’m sorry I don’t have much advice as I’ve never personally dealt with this kind of thing, but I’m sending all my love and hugs your way *super hug*

[Weird_Kitten]

I’m sorry I don’t have much advice as I’ve never personally dealt with this kind of thing, but I’m sending all my love and hugs your way *super hug*

Thank you~

[Guest Kitty~]

Have you tried toys, journaling your feelings of what happened, cute little things like socks, warm blankets, milk, etc to make you feel little again?It took me a while to bring out my little side but journaling and writing out my feelings of from the past really helped....and  slowly introducing cute things helped me. Big hugs to you. As for building trust between a caregiver it takes time,maybe your bf will be okay with you finding a caregiver whos into ddlg?

Edited January 20, 2020 by Kitty~

[lilbabybee]

Kitten, thanks for sharing with us. I can only imagine how difficult it must be to be rejected like that.

I don't mean to sound rude at all, but allow me to ask this: does your boyfriend understand fully what being a little is? I have a feeling he may not understand the necessity to regress.

Being pregnant means there are lots of extremely adult decisions you have to make, so it makes sense to have to regress sometimes. When you have so much pressure on you to take care of your child, sometimes you need to be taken care of too. I hope your boyfriend comes around to realize that everyone needs a break from adulting and for you, regressing is what works.

There are a lot of sites that talk about the mental benefits of regression (stress/anxiety relief, more general happiness, more energy to be big when you have to be, etc.) Would you possibly consider providing some sources to your boyfriend? I don't know him but maybe it would help him understand better...

Best of luck to you. Keep us updated, we are all rooting for your little.

[Weird_Kitten]

Have you tried toys, journaling your feelings of what happened, cute little things like socks, warm blankets, milk, etc to make you feel little again?It took me a while to bring out my little side but journaling and writing out my feelings of from the past really helped....and slowly introducing cute things helped me. Big hugs to you. As for building trust between a caregiver it takes time,maybe your bf will be okay with you finding a caregiver whos into ddlg?

I'll give that a try. I have no clue why I haven't thought of that before. He actually has been researching it. According to him he thought I was just messing with him until he looked it up and saw just how serious a thing it was. Now he's trying but he has no idea where to go with it. I have no real idea how to help him in the right direction...

[Weird_Kitten]

Kitten, thanks for sharing with us. I can only imagine how difficult it must be to be rejected like that.

I don't mean to sound rude at all, but allow me to ask this: does your boyfriend understand fully what being a little is? I have a feeling he may not understand the necessity to regress.

Being pregnant means there are lots of extremely adult decisions you have to make, so it makes sense to have to regress sometimes. When you have so much pressure on you to take care of your child, sometimes you need to be taken care of too. I hope your boyfriend comes around to realize that everyone needs a break from adulting and for you, regressing is what works.

There are a lot of sites that talk about the mental benefits of regression (stress/anxiety relief, more general happiness, more energy to be big when you have to be, etc.) Would you possibly consider providing some sources to your boyfriend? I don't know him but maybe it would help him understand better...

Best of luck to you. Keep us updated, we are all rooting for your little.

When I first brought it up he thought it was a joke been he has been researching. He told me he joined a cartaker forum. And I'd love to be able to send him information like that but I have a hard time finding stuff. I know I don't need pacis or diapers when Little. Most stuff I find is for really young littles so I hesitate sending it to him for fear when I get comfortable enough to try to have little time with him I'll be handed bottles and binkies. I know I don't need those....

[Weird_Kitten]

If it helps I've been able to go little a few times online through a roleplaying site I use. Ifs not quite ME though. It is a roleplaying site afterall...

But its the thought that counts right ^^;

[lilbabybee]

When I first brought it up he thought it was a joke been he has been researching. He told me he joined a cartaker forum. And I'd love to be able to send him information like that but I have a hard time finding stuff. I know I don't need pacis or diapers when Little. Most stuff I find is for really young littles so I hesitate sending it to him for fear when I get comfortable enough to try to have little time with him I'll be handed bottles and binkies. I know I don't need those....

I'm really glad he's been making an effort. That's very important. You definitely don't have to send him anything that doesn't represent you, there are lots of types of littles. It sounds like you may get some little time with him soon--I hope so at least. Best of luck ^-^

[Weird_Kitten]

I'm really glad he's been making an effort. That's very important. You definitely don't have to send him anything that doesn't represent you, there are lots of types of littles. It sounds like you may get some little time with him soon--I hope so at least. Best of luck ^-^

Thank you very much. Maybe some day soon I'll be able to say I successfully had little time ^-^

[Weird_Kitten]

Welp starting to look like my story will end in me being single and having a baby daddy...

 

I just...I don't know anymore...

[Weird_Kitten]

I am now single and scared of my now exboyfriend...

[Kodadaddy]

I'm sorry to hear that, as a single parent ik it's scary and hard. Hugs and best of luck with your little

[Bubbles_and_Feathers]

I'm so sorry you're struggling, I really hope everything works out okay for you. <3

[Bubbles_and_Feathers]

Kitten, thanks for sharing with us. I can only imagine how difficult it must be to be rejected like that.

I don't mean to sound rude at all, but allow me to ask this: does your boyfriend understand fully what being a little is? I have a feeling he may not understand the necessity to regress.

Being pregnant means there are lots of extremely adult decisions you have to make, so it makes sense to have to regress sometimes. When you have so much pressure on you to take care of your child, sometimes you need to be taken care of too. I hope your boyfriend comes around to realize that everyone needs a break from adulting and for you, regressing is what works.

There are a lot of sites that talk about the mental benefits of regression (stress/anxiety relief, more general happiness, more energy to be big when you have to be, etc.) Would you possibly consider providing some sources to your boyfriend? I don't know him but maybe it would help him understand better...

Best of luck to you. Keep us updated, we are all rooting for your little.

Do you have any links for resources that help explain littlespace as a coping skill? I would appreciate them if you do.