I’m struggling to keep my little happy, help please!

[DaddyDom13]

I’ve been trying to be a better daddy but I’ve been really slipping up and making mistakes and I just wanna know your guys solutions for forgetting things or not making sure things are a priority. I’d appreciate any and all advice as it could really save my relationship with my little.

[Little kaiya]

Talk to your little. Find out if they're really unhappy at what's happening or not. Talk and find a common agreement that will make them happy AND you happy.

 

If you are really trying then that is what should be important. Everyone slips up and makes mistakes. If I make a mistake or my Daddy does we don't get down on one another. We cuddle, talk it through and figure out solutions that work for us.

 

Honestly, people in an online forum can't save your relationship but having an adult to adult meta talk with your partner could do wonders.

[BabyDaisy81]

The most important thing is that you love your little and show it.. When Daddy and I fight we always talk it through because we love each other.. Nobody’s perfect, we just do what we can and learn from our oopsies xoxo

[Guest Lavendar Bunni Wubbins]

Make a list of everything that you think you're slipping up with, or things your little has mentioned (or ask them to make you a list of things they think could be improved)..and one day just set aside some time for you both to talk about it and come up with ideas/compromises/etc. Not that it can all be solved immediately and quickly, but I'm sure it will help a lot, and this way they can tell you their thoughts on how certain things might work better, and you two can really hash it out to find what works best for the both of you.

[AttendingBear]

When I have trouble with littles I make a survey for them to fill out, what could be done better, what is already good. This way you have input from your little on questions that you have. It's sometimes hard to bring these things up, but it's easy to jot down a bunch of thoughts and then give them to her. 

[Guest Relentlessoptimist]

Start an online document like through google docs. That way you both can write and add things so you dont have to memorize everything. As well you can write out tasks or write questions your little can fill in.

 

This shouldn't be that stressful and having a document will help you both stay more organized. Best wishes and remember, this process should be fun for both of you. If it's not figure out why. Communicate. And get better over time.

[Mister J]

COMMUNICATION!!!!! The best daddies make communication a top priority. Especially for new daddies you will make mistakes, forget things and just plain fail. Talk to your little and put her needs first and place her on a pedestal. Good little girls will help guide you to your weaknesses.