I hate ghosting :(

[Guest Kitty~]

Please to all the future daddies out there if you are not interested in a little at least tell them, yes it will hurt but I promise you they will appreciate the common courtesy you had to tell them. It seems like every potential daddy I meet ends up ghosting me or blocking me. It really hurts... like why just not tell me?! Sorry for the little rant....

[Guest Mr. J]

This goes for everyone, daddies/mommies/caregivers and littles/middles alike. I don't even care to count how many have contacted me and almost even before their first sentence just   stop responding. Like... fucking nice to meet you too, asshole xD It's completely fine to change your mind after contacting someone, but for the love of whatever is left in this world don't be an ass; communicate!

[Little kaiya]

Mr. J you really hit the nail on the head. It seems so often it's an accusation leveled at just Caregivers, Daddies especially, but it is something done by people of ALL sorts in this community and it's really poor behavior no matter who is doing it.

[SmolAetherr]

because they are cowards, im a believer in not giving a shit about people who would do that.. it helps me move on

[xX~Xtine~Xx]

I always believe in getting to know a bit about people before making quick decisions and it is always polite to let them down easy if you are not interested. You never know what someone else is going through and that last rejection, that is insignificant to you, could really do damage to their state of mind. If they still pursue you, even after you have told them your intentions, follow up with a reminder. Then if they still don't take the hint, tell them that you are blocking them, wish them well and then block. It doesn't cost you anything to be kind to somebody. 

[Guest Looby-Lou]

Unfortunately this is a part of modern day "communication". Some people just don't have the skills or the consideration to say "it was nice chatting with you, but I'd like to leave things here thank you" etc.

 

I do think this sort of thing has ALWAYS happened in it's own way. Getting "stood up" on a date is pretty much the same as blocking, if not worse.

Also the example of a man saying "that was great and I'll call you tomorrow" after a date ... and then the other person never hears from them again. Or a girl saying "here's my number" and giving a fake number in a pick up situation.

 

The internet allows us to connect with more people, more easily, and more often. I think that's why we see this poor behaviour more often. 

 

It does hurt. It does cause self-doubt. It does cause all sorts of unhappy feelings. But the best thing IMO is to just shrug and move on.

 

Looby 

[The RealDaddyCat]

Unfortunately this does go both ways