Revealing Pics

[Guest DaddyFrozen]

To all dear littles,

First of all, I AM NOT AGAINST ANY PERSONAL CHOICE. The intention of the post is to educate my fellow site members of the extend of DAMAGE INTERNET can cause in your daily lives.

 

Recently, I read a forum when a LITTLE SHARED AN INCIDENT WHERE A "DADDY" THREATENED POSTING HER PICS IN A PORNO WEBSITE.

A humble suggestion. There is nothing wrong in posting revealing pics, but please don't complain later that lot of Daddies approach you for wrong intentions. There are bad apples everywhere including this site.

Some of the pics in this site make me feel like I am in a porn site. Again, posting a revealing pic is a personal choice - I am not against anyone.

Please use your "adult" intuitions/intelligence to filter the fake/wrong intention CGs and littles..

Good luck and stay blessed!

Edited January 8, 2020 by DaddyFrozen

[Guest Acenya]

As you probably know, the rules state that pornographic/nude images are not allowed on the site, so I wonder why you get that feeling from the images?

I don't think there's anything wrong showing your body in an outfit you felt cute in, for instance. It's not an invitation by any means for others to comment on your body or make assumptions about you based on your pictures, or approach you with "wrong intentions", as you put it.

This is a Dd/lg site and I think littles as well as caregivers should feel safe to post images of themselves without feeling that they're going to get harassed for the pictures they post.

 

So, is the real issue littles who post pictures or the people who harass them for it? 

This post made it seem like littles deserve all the bad attention they get because they posted a picture of themselves that they liked. 

So, respectively, I do not agree with your post.

Edited January 8, 2020 by Acenya

[SmolAetherr]

please don't apologise for creeps who lack the ability to respect others or themselves.

 

also a humble suggestion, if you dont want to see revealing images, go play club penguin or roblox, very kid friendly i hear.

Edited January 8, 2020 by Aetherr

[Guest DaddyFrozen]

As you probably know, the rules state that pornographic/nude images are not allowed on the site, so I wonder why you get that feeling from the images?

 

I don't think there's anything wrong showing your body in an outfit you felt cute in, for instance. It's not an invitation by any means for others to comment on your body or make assumptions about you based on your pictures, or approach you with "wrong intentions", as you put it.

 

This is a Dd/lg site and I think littles as well as caregivers should feel safe to post images of themselves without feeling that they're going to get harassed for the pictures they post.

 

So, is the real issue littles who post pictures or the people who harass them for it? 

This post made it seem like littles deserve all the bad attention they get because they posted a picture of themselves that they liked. 

 

So, respectively, I do not agree with your post.

First thing, you did not understand my post.

 

Secondly, the rules says no porno images but i can show you a 100s of pics with nipple/revealing pics.

Again, i don't mind, if that's what they want, I RESPECT THAT if that's what they want.

 

But i just want everyone to be cautious, I was reading a forum where a "so called Daddy" threatened a little to post their compromising pics in a porno website. I just want littles to be more careful. post anything they like, but be real careful.

 

By the way, I am a Cyber Security Consultant by career, I help organizations and governments protect themselves from IT threats, ransomware, hacking and other security stuff. I have seen way too things in my career of lives getting destroyed coz of their online actions.

 

Yes, it's true that the real issue are with ppl who have "wrong intentions".

But there's no harm in taking precaution.

 

Would you close your eyes and cross a road because it is the driver's responsibility to not cause an accident ?

Well, a lot of people will do just that if it is online, coz they don't realize the extend of damage INTERNET can cause.

 

I hope I did not offend you or anyone else. My aim is not to offend anyone but just to make others aware of what few actions can cause to their lives.

 

Thank you.

Edited January 8, 2020 by DaddyFrozen

[Guest DaddyFrozen]

please don't apologise for creeps who lack the ability to respect others or themselves.

 

also a humble suggestion, if you dont want to see revealing images, go play club penguin or roblox, very kid friendly i hear.

hey mate, I was very clear when i said I RESPECT OTHER'S DECISION TO POST ANYTHING THEY LIKE.

 

All I want is that ppl should realize the extend of damage INTERNET can cause. Please read my earlier response and you might get an understanding why I made such a post.

 

I do not wish to offend you nor anyone for that matter.

Thank you.

[Barney048]

While your heart is in the right place, everything else is not. I understand that you want to protect and warn littles in a way, but this just comes of really offensive. You feel like you are on a pornographic site?

 

First of all, these kind of "revealing" pics that you see here are posted by most people on social media such as facebook and instagram. The only difference is that the revealing pictures here tend to be more little themed, that's all.

 

Secondly, DD/LG is a close cousin to BDSM , and if you use Fetlife I'm sure that you've seen a lot of adult content. Well here such content is not used, and even if it were allowed I'd see nothing wrong with this. People tend to take advantage of littles cause they are as a demographic the easiest target. It has nothing to do with the pictures they post. A lot of littles don't do proper vetting  and take the first caregiver that comes along. 

 

Again man, I know that your heart is in the right place, but express yourself better in the future.

[SmolAetherr]

hey mate, I was very clear when i said I RESPECT OTHER'S DECISION TO POST ANYTHING THEY LIKE.

 

All I want is that ppl should realize the extend of damage INTERNET can cause. Please read my earlier response and you might get an understanding why I made such a post.

 

I do not wish to offend you nor anyone for that matter.

Thank you.

you are talking to adults who will have the sense to know this already or don't care in the least, everyone is at risk of exposure when they have an online presence, its not limited to this website or to any other companies/people are guilty of holding data ransom constantly

and its not even data that is shared publicly or consensually, hackers exist also

 

this is not news, but your post comes across as if you are apologising for the small group of crazies who dont respect people

 

and as i said if you dont like what you are exposed to here, then leave! literally everyone else is happy and aware of the dangers and if not then they will learn the hard way but talking to people from a soap box doesent work it rubs people like me the wrong way and destroys any point you were trying to make.

Edited January 8, 2020 by Aetherr

[Guest Kaori]

First thing, you did not understand my post.

 

Secondly, the rules says no porno images but i can show you a 100s of pics with nipple/revealing pics.

Again, i don't mind, if that's what they want, I RESPECT THAT if that's what they want.

 

But i just want everyone to be cautious, I was reading a forum where a "so called Daddy" threatened a little to post their compromising pics in a porno website. I just want littles to be more careful. post anything they like, but be real careful.

 

By the way, I am a Cyber Security Consultant by career, I help organizations and governments protect themselves from IT threats, ransomware, hacking and other security stuff. I have seen way too things in my career of lives getting destroyed coz of their online actions.

 

Yes, it's true that the real issue are with ppl who have "wrong intentions".

But there's no harm in taking precaution.

 

Would you close your eyes and cross a road because it is the driver's responsibility to not cause an accident ?

Well, a lot of people will do just that if it is online, coz they don't realize the extend of damage INTERNET can cause.

 

I hope I did not offend you or anyone else. My aim is not to offend anyone but just to make others aware of what few actions can cause to their lives.

 

Thank you.

 

 If there are photos that violate our rules, the right thing to do would be to report them so we, the staff, can handle them.

 

However I understand the point of your post as does the rest of the staff which is why we preach internet safety so often. The general public wants to trust that the person they're talking to would not do such a thing. Unfortunately that's just not the case and, especially on the internet, there are more bad seeds than there are good ones. True its someones decision to send or post more revealing photos or nude photos but its also very normal and their right to be mad and offended about the behavior of those that would threaten to spread those photos across the internet. The important thing is as you said, awareness and precaution.

 

I also disagree that our site is like a pornographic site. We do not allow NSFW photos but we do allow members to post more revealing photos as long as they're not overly suggestive or depict sexual organs (including nipples). I will also say that we can't be everywhere all the time as the entire staff volunteers their time to moderate and keep the site safe. Additionally everyone's view of NSFW is different and what is uncomfortable to one person may not be to another. 

[Guest PrincessSparkles35]

First thing, you did not understand my post.

 

Secondly, the rules says no porno images but i can show you a 100s of pics with nipple/revealing pics.

Again, i don't mind, if that's what they want, I RESPECT THAT if that's what they want.

 

But i just want everyone to be cautious, I was reading a forum where a "so called Daddy" threatened a little to post their compromising pics in a porno website. I just want littles to be more careful. post anything they like, but be real careful.

 

By the way, I am a Cyber Security Consultant by career, I help organizations and governments protect themselves from IT threats, ransomware, hacking and other security stuff. I have seen way too things in my career of lives getting destroyed coz of their online actions.

 

Yes, it's true that the real issue are with ppl who have "wrong intentions".

But there's no harm in taking precaution.

 

Would you close your eyes and cross a road because it is the driver's responsibility to not cause an accident ?

Well, a lot of people will do just that if it is online, coz they don't realize the extend of damage INTERNET can cause.

 

I hope I did not offend you or anyone else. My aim is not to offend anyone but just to make others aware of what few actions can cause to their lives.

 

Thank you.

Hi...

I just wanted to say i understand ypur perspective and agree. We should be careful with what we post. Some things csn be used against others and make them to feel uncomfortable.

[playroompunk]

Think it through, people....think it through. We're all adults here, we all have agency over what we post on the Internet.  Just consider the risks carefully, and then do what you'd like to do. 

 

If you're comfortable with it and want to, should you be able to post revealing pictures of yourself on an appropriate platform? Absolutely! 

 

Do people, especially strangers on the internet, freakin' suck? Absolutely. 

 

"Distribution of intimate images without consent" is a crime in a lot of places, including where I live. If someone shares your nudes to get revenge on you, they're in trouble. Do they get in trouble for it if you go to the cops? Yup.  But if word gets out publicly about just who's in those photos, is your career and reputation ruined because of it? Oftentimes yes, especially if you're a woman, because the justice system sucks and society's attitude towards sexuality is still warped as heck. It's not fair and it's not logical, but it's sadly true. 

 

Do some people still want to go ahead and share photos of that nature, even if they're aware of the potential dangers of being exposed? Absolutely, because they know they're not the ones who are morally in the wrong here.   

 

The only way to make the Internet a safer place for everyone is for society to get a wake-up call and have a major paradigm shift happen.  Place the blame where it belongs, on the people who use someone's sexuality and body as a tool to shame and control them, not on those expressing something perfectly human.