Introducing my boyfriend to DDLG

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[Guest strawberry_milk]

Hi!
I was in the exact same situation a few months ago. I didn't actually "introduce" my boyfriend to this kind of lifestyle, it all happened gradually. I started off with small things, like sitting on his lap while he played video games, asking him to stroke my head and giving him lots and lots of kisses and saying cute words to him. I get REALLY excited when I see him - I usually start jumping around and make some weird goofy noises. He started joking that sometimes he feels like a daddy, but I didn't respond to it in any way at first as I was too embarrassed. One day he just asked me if I wanted to be his little - and I said yes, of course! At first he was a bit upset as he didn't know how to act or talk to me and how to organise my little time, but it all came together when some time passed! Just find some things that work with you two. If you want some examples, my daddy loves watching cartoons, having baths together, going on walks and collecting flowers, cooking together, cuddling, tickling and just being goofy. The most important is to act naturally and TALK! If you want him to read a book to you, just ask him to do so. But don't put yourself down if he says no!! He won't be comfortable with everything just yet and that is why communication is so important.

[BabyDaisy81]

I’ve always been three and when I first met my daddy I was talking about my teddy bear,, Hilarious because I was an escort and he was a client,, He was kind and sweet and has a really nurturing and parental manner,, We fell in love and he brought me the sweetest teddy bear ever!! as a Christmas gift when we had our first Christmas.. Then he started putting me to bed before he went home for the night and it progressed to playing in the playground together.. My son and I would be up in the jungle gym with him and it was awesome!! We kind of slowly got into it.. Then I had the problems with my back and I needed to start potty training (using alarms to tell me when I needed to go to the toilet).. He’s my biggest cheerleader.. When my dolly got hurt he helped me get her fixed, when I had a procedure done at the hospital he looked after me when I was discharged and was very caring and helpful when I did a wet.. I started calling him Daddy and he thought it was strange and was concerned since I’d been abused when I was a child.. I explained it to him and gave him tons of research about it so he understands it.. When he did his reading and we went and made some rules and punishments for me and rules for him it was more or less codifying what we’d had cooking since we first met.. For me it’s a safety net and a living thing for me where I feel safe and comfortable.. I have multiple psychiatric disorders and he wants me to be safe and happy.. When we make our home together I’m going to have my toddler self off the leash and fit the adult stuff like housework and work around that,, The research helped him a lot because he’s a reader, it’s also his personality to be a daddy  Next time we are together I’m going to have my reusable nappies for night time and my binkies and onesies which he knows about already.. IRL he’s a grandfather so he helped me decide on my nappies.. How good is that??

[Guest Ninny689]

Even tho my Daddy was never a Daddy before, he knew from day one.. or, maybe three - alllmost the very beginning, he knew i was a little - but, even with that, we’re still constantly evolving and having to speak up when a kink has changed or you have a new one or you’re just not into something anymore - for sure the best advice is just to let nature take it’s course - try to be as open as possible - not just into what you or what the other is thinking and wanting.. but, as to how these things manifest - just let go and let the “little” things bubble to the surface when they come up and see what happens he might not be into full on Daddy mode in the beginning- but, that’s the cool part of the journey, anyway figuring out what works for just the two of you