Is this okay/normal? sibling role & aesthetics

[MuddyKitten]

Hi everybody, I’m an 18 year old trans man submissive just starting to get into the community.

Ive been doing a lot of reading and research, and I’m trying to figure out where I fit in.

Firstly, while I’m not very much into the role of a “daddy” or parental dom, I am really into the idea of an older brother dom. Someone who teases me and torments me but also plays with me and protects me, to take the role of an older sibling caregiver. All I’ve found for siblings on here is a switch role or two littles with the same parent dom, and I was wondering if anyone else shared this older sibling fantasy (JUST fantasy, obviously, I don’t condone incest). And also, maybe some suggestions for things to call this big bro role?

Also, most of the regressors and ageplayers i find take the role of a very young person, but in my little space (or maybe middle?) i’m around 10. Is that okay? I also really don’t vibe with the typical aesthetic of ddlb, like pastel colors and cute bunnies and lace and all that. Its fine and all, its just not my thing. I really would like activities like playing in the dirt, building forts in the forest, nerf/water fights, legos. watching cartoons like original justice league, bionicles, digimon, etc. In this state I’m stubborn and bratty.

From what I’ve read, its okay to have two “personalities” in play, and thats a relief because I also have what I think is a petspace. I would love to be called “kitten” and wear a collar (nothing pastel and lacey, like before, just a plain leather medium blue collar) that shows I belong to my dom, as well as be petted and cuddled, but I’m not interested in literally pretending to be a cat, eat out of bowls, sleep in a cage, etc. Kind of like a regular human who happens to be owned and cared for. Is this still petplay, or something different?

Im sorry if im using this forum or any terms wrong, I’m very new to all this. Hope yall can help me out here.

[clo_oh]

i have been interested in that dynamic as well. i am more personally into the parental/mommy dom, but i would try it,

just to see if i would be into it. i would assume the older sibling dynamic may be called SD/LG,SD/LB? for sibling dom little boy/girl?

i am not sure, that just really sounds right.

 

 

little age really doesn't have any limits(to me at least.). i have heard that 0-6 is little age and 7+ is middle.

of course it is okay to have an older little age. there are no rules saying that you can't have older ages when little/middle.

heck there are no rules at all. i even know people who are around tween age(11-12) when middle.

the typical aesthetic for DD/LG,DD/LB,MD/LG,MD/LB are a lot more girly, so i understand that. i dont really fit in with it either seeings that

i am more on the 'grudge' side on aesthetic(it might not seem like it because of my personality lol.).

it is fine to have a more dirty/boyish aesthetic. like i said, there are no definite rules to this dynamic. which is why it is so great.

i can also relate to being more on the stubborn and bratty side. 

 

petplay is actually pretty common with/in CGL(just gonna use that.).

some people have different personalities for their little space and petspace.

some people can be really quiet and shy when big, but really loud and outgoing when little, vice versa.

pet play does not have to be extreme. i am not into extreme petplay either. other people might say different, it is all based on personal preference.

lots of people have lots of different definitions for kinks.   

 

you are using this forum correctly, so dont worry.

here is a list for all of the terms you might hear commonly, just to help:

 

DD/LG :daddy dom / little girl

 

DD/LB : daddy dom / little boy 

 

MD/LG : mommy dom / little girl

 

MD/LB : mommy dom / little boy

 

CG/L : caregiver / little  

 

ABDL : adult baby diaper lover

 

LDR : long distance relationship 

 

NSWF : not safe for work 

SFW : safe for work 

Edited January 5, 2020 by clo_oh

[Guest QueenJellybean]

hi! here are some topics to check out on this subject: 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/45304-big-brother-little-sis-dynamic/?hl=sibling&do=findComment&comment=229394

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/44669-ddlg-siblings-appreciation-post/?hl=siblings