New to this and aloof daddy

[MotorcycleKitten]

Hello everyone I am new here and to this all really. I didn't realize how much of a little I already was! I have dabbled in some ABDL but I also like to act kind of middleish. I started talking to this guy who seemed like he could be a great daddy but his interest in me seems to be flighty. He isn't truthful with me either but yet I want to be his little. Please tell me I am better without him ha. Hopefully I can find a better daddy! I have wanted to expand into this for awhile. 

[Guest PrincessSparkles35]

Hi...

Im still fairly new to this too but i have learned trust is the most importsnt thing. If this guy hasnt earned your trust maybe give yourself more time and distance from him.

[Little kaiya]

If he isn't being truthful with you why on earth would you want to be with him??? Trust is crucial for ANY relationship and if there are lies at the start how could you build any trust?

 

Take your time, get to know people, find someone you trust.

[SmolAetherr]

welcome to the club! i'm a daddy dom

 

in regards to this dom you are talking to, ask him directly "what do you want us to be?"

 

i know its easy just to melt into the arms of someone but trust me, red flags dont go away

if anyone does anything you find questionable or not ideal for you then you should ask questions, take what you find safe and ask if its best for you or just easy

 

because it goes without saying but the best for you is not easy

 

but you have a community of people dealing with the same questions and we are all looking for answers and looking to help eachother

 

good luck, don't settle.

Edited January 4, 2020 by Aetherr

[The RealDaddyCat]

Communication and Trust are the number one things in the lifestyle. You'll find a lot of people who do not take this seriously make sure they take it as seriously as you do.