My Little Self

[BabyBunnyBunting]

Just a quick question, how does everyone else refer to their own little self? Sometimes I treat my little self as a part of my personality i.e. 'i like dinosaurs', and other times i refer to my little self as a separate person, i.e. 'she likes dinosaurs'. I feel like referring to my little side in the third person is a bit silly, i don't know.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

i refer to mine in the third person. 

i even call her 'Baby'. 

i don't think it's weird at all. 

whatever works for you. 

 

[Sean]

I've never referred to my little self in the 3rd person. I admit that I am my little self, but what ever works for you, you know? if it seems a little silly to you, try referring to yourself in the first like others.

[Little kaiya]

[Guest Looby-Lou]

I'm sure you're not alone with this. Anyway, if it comes naturally to you and you like it, then don't worry about it or what others might think - anyone close to you i.e. anyone who matters, will get used to it

 

I have a  nickname which refers to me as "little" and use it in a similar way to little Kaiya. Having a name for me as a little can come in very handy, especially when out in public. Let's just say I use the name Looby ... e.g. "Looby would like that" pointing to a dolly in a shop. This way no one around us is embarrassed, but the person I'm speaking to understands perfectly. 

 

It's also VERY useful when discussing relationship dynamics with a Daddy/Dom. It helps make a clear distinction between adult & little wants/needs/capabilities etc. 

 

Looby 

[junebug0325]

I don't reference myself the way you do. I'm not in littlespace all the time but I recognize that that is a part of me. So if I'm talking to someone, regardless of age, I will say "I like dinosaurs"... because I like dinosaurs even if I'm not in littlespace.

 

Sometimes when I am talking to Daddy about certain things specifically to little space I will say things along the lines of "when I'm in littlespace" or "when I'm little" to talk to him. Normally when I'm saying this it's to talk about certain things I feel when I'm little.

 

Anyways, to answer your question in a short answer: no. I don't. But that's because littlespace is part of me and I'm not a different person nor do I like different things. But obviously, everyone is different and everyone has their own way of doing things. So just be you!

 

 

 

 

Junebug xxx

[BabyBunnyBunting]

Hmmm, thank you everyone for your input so far! It's occurred to me that perhaps the reason i switch between referring to my Little side in first and third person, is because i can't always tell how Little I'm feeling? Like,sometimes it's obvious I'm Little, but it's also a huge part of my everyday personality too, so there's no clear cut move from Big to Little headspace... any thoughts?