How can I introduce my partner to the lifestyle?

December 30, 2019

Hi everyone, I'm new here. My name's Rosie and I've been a little for just about forever. I've been very shy about my little side and I haven't really talked about it at length with my partner. I've mentioned it briefly and talked about Mommy/Daddy stuff in passing but she's said she finds it weird... We're engaged and getting married in 2020.

Currently, I do get into littlespace around her from time to time. I like snuggles, I like colouring and my stuffies, and she calls me her princess. She spanks me sometimes as well if I'm being bratty. She's really a very caring person and I love her to pieces but I'm not sure she's a Mommy type... I don't know if it's because she doesn't know much about it now or what. The more I think about it the more I feel that I really want, if not need, a Mommy or Daddy figure to care for me when I'm little and help me through, and I don't know how to talk to my fiancée about it.

Do any of you have advice on how I can introduce her to the lifestyle? What to say when bringing it up? I don't want to lose her but I don't want to bury my little side either.

December 30, 2019

you can start by showing her what you wrote here, how these things she does with you make you feel

ask her why she feel negatively about ddlg

have a constructive discussion with the aim to dispell and clear up what this all is

just be ready to accept the alternative that she may not see it your way and if that is the case you need to figure out what you are willing to give up with to be with her

dealbreakers

stand by those points, stand by what you want because that matters the most and you cant force a person to like what you like just because you want to be with them

Edited December 30, 2019 by Aetherr