I’m little but Daddy wants to be little too now?

[angelbaby_eden]

Today I was hanging out with my daddy but he talked about sum personal things and went into little space(￣▽￣

I don’t think I have it in me to be a caregiver n I told him that and he got all embarrassed and didn’t want to talk about it anymore(；ω；)

I feel bad but I just can’t be a c/g. It doesn’t feel right 4 me. Does anyone else hav tips 4 dis kinda situation¿ I don’t rlly kno what to do,,,

[DaBrat1994]

You can sit down and calmly explain to him that you don't think you can be a c/g

 

All realtionships start with talking thats just where you ahve to start.. 

 

If it makes you feel any better i don't think i could be a c/g to my Daddy if he turned little either i would let him go find a Mommy/Dom if he wanted too. 

[angelbaby_eden]

You can sit down and calmly explain to him that you don't think you can be a c/g

 

All realtionships start with talking thats just where you ahve to start.. 

 

If it makes you feel any better i don't think i could be a c/g to my Daddy if he turned little either i would let him go find a Mommy/Dom if he wanted too.

 

ahh thank you for ur help♡ i think i’ll bring it up 2 him when he’s less stressed or worried about it!

[DaBrat1994]

ahh thank you for ur help♡ i think i’ll bring it up 2 him when he’s less stressed or worried about it!

no problem darlin

[Guest Relentlessoptimist]

That's okay, it depends if you still love him even though he want's a caregiver/daddy as well.

 

So, your relationship has several possibilities. 

 

1) He hides his little self

2) He embraces his little self

3) You get a seperate daddy, he gets a seperate daddy or mommy, you two stay together. 

4) You both might get the same daddy/mommy

5) Take turns or he has a daddy but also is your daddy?

or

6) You break apart because your needs arent being met by the other 

 

These are options, and i wish you all the best in exploring them so both of you feel fulfilled. 

 

Some people need  to have monogamy, and others can accept a range of non sexual to sexual poly relationships.

It might mean that you two also have a chat of, is it okay to be intimate on some level with someone outside of your relationship or to include a third person in both your lives. 

 

Best wishes. 

[Little kaiya]

There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be a caregiver. Personally if my Daddy told me He wanted me to be His caregiver that would be an absolute hard limit for me. It's not that I don't love Him and care for Him, I do, but that would totally change our dynamic and ask me to be something I'm not.

 

Relentlessoptimist gave you some great options but I think the best bit of advice is talk to your partner. You both need to have a dynamic and solution that works for both of you.

[Guest Relentlessoptimist]

She is so right, communication is important. Relationships here or anywhere depend on good conversation so talk. Then think, and then talk a few more times to see if you can sort things out. Everything will be okay even if these conversations are a bit scary at times. Hugs.

[CodeName: Trouble]

Lots of good feedback here! but I have a question.... Did he ask you to be his caregiver, or was he just expressing an interest in being little? Not all littles need caregivers. If he is just wanting to explore that side of himself, would you still be against him being a playmate while he explores little space and then going back to being your daddy when he isnt? Its definetly not something everyone is comfortable exploring/doing but it is another option that doesnt involve you having to take a caregiving role. Definetly have a talk with him and figure out what he needs, and express what you need too. I wish you both the best 

[Musalot]

I am in a similar situation as him, i personally am a switch. My wife has a hard limit of not being a caregiver. My switch age is in the early teens, and she gets annoyed by it and finds it unattractive. So i kinda do my own thing like build a model, play video games, or make some cleaning into a game of some sort and she leaves me be. She told me she's comfortable with me finding another partner for a mommy for myself. But i turned down the idea because i don't want to open myself in that way to anyone, and still not be intimate with them. I don't think I'm in a place that could handle multiple partners. So it works out atm due to my regression is still independent. If you both can handle him having a mommy and the intimacy that may bring, that would be best to make sure all your needs are met. If you can't he may need to figure out how to be an independent little. If he can there is the possibility You could maybe make it into a sibling CG with his little self being a big brother and have a lot of playdates with a big brother. Edited December 29, 2019 by Musalot