Big brother little sis dynamic

[Guest YoungLady91]

I'm curious to learn about the big brother little sis dynamic if anyone is willing to share. I have had a daddy and pretty much understand the ddlg lifestyle. If anyone is in the big bro little sis dynamic, please tell me the punishments, how the big bro shows dominance, etc. Thanks!

[Guest Relentlessoptimist]

I tried it, thought there was this amazing spark. We chatted. I wanted to teach them and train them without dating them or doing anything sexual. They seemed to like ot but I was cautioned against going into such a relationship top quickly, but it just felt right. And then a few days later they ghosted me after I told them we would work together on all their life issues and bringing them back into balance for a fulfilled life.

 

So my advice is, be friends first for a while. Also, I dont yet understand what the limitations or differences are between a big brother and little girl vs daddy and little girl. I'm happy to learn so I'll follow his thread and also would love insight.

[LittleGirlEmilia]

I have 2 older siblings, Sharkie and Belle. Both are friendships I've built up for years and have that closeness where I don't talk to them every day but I know I can go to them if I need them and it doesn't have that weirdness of not constantly being in contact. I'm there for them when/if they need me too.

 

For me it's an unconditional love and support that exceeds a normal friendship. We can also tease each other, my big brother is good at trying to wind me up. Belle and Sharkie also have a sibling relationship, so it's like the 3 of us are our own thing. I don't have punishments or anything from them, but I think Belle would be able to help you more about how a big brother can help you day to day, but I figured I'd tell you how it is for me.

 

Shout out to my big brother and sister! Love you both.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

this is a great place to start: 

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/44669-ddlg-siblings-appreciation-post/?hl=siblings

[Guest daddy'ssweetpea]

I had this first, it was platonic so not romantic. It worked really well at the time, but it has hard points too like when he got a girlfriend, I was of course open to it because we were platonic and he was a brother but she didn't understand our relationship and ultimately he chose her. It can work for some but you have to be realistic about it too.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

I had this first, it was platonic so not romantic. It worked really well at the time, but it has hard points too like when he got a girlfriend, I was of course open to it because we were platonic and he was a brother but she didn't understand our relationship and ultimately he chose her. It can work for some but you have to be realistic about it too.

 

this dynamic -- while not always romantic -- is still a sort of relationship & needs to be treated as such (in my opinion, at least.)

it always works best when everyone involved in consenting & aware -- including partners of siblings that *are* romantic. 

i'm sorry that it didn't work out for you. ):