Asking for long distance gaining a little advice

[FatherDaddy]

Hi, 

A little history of me is i was in a DD/LG relationship that didnt end well. I began to oppose the entire community due to spite but recently have met someone that has brought me back to it. I am a 19 year old now in south Australia and have met this girl online as a friend of a friend, she is 20 years old and is 2 hours out of sydney...13 hours away from me. Knowing eachother for about a month we have gotten what i see as closer than what normal friends would be and she started questioning me about why my ingame names, discord names, insta names etc all have daddy nye in some sort of way or another and i openly told her because my previous relationship I was involved in a ddlg relationship and I made these accounts during the relationship. Thinking she was judging me later on the call when we went into a private call she told me she used to be a little (Aged 5) and really enjoyed it. 

 

Skip forward to the past 4 days of staying up ungodly hours on voice channels i have fallen head over heels for her. Its a bit too soon in my mind to start forming a relationship due to it being early on in our friendship and i dont know if she has any feelings for me. She has confided in me showing her "Q & A" from tumblr (Yknow the one with the about you, relationships, fetishes, masturbation, this or that.) which i feel as a good sign, but i dont want to form untrue thoughts in my head that might just be her wanting to do it. She has also created an account on instagram just for her little space and has sent me her tumblr which is a mixture of littlespace and semi nsfw  etc.

My advice i am asking for is how i come around asking her about me wanting to be her daddy. The distance is the biggest concern here but with a job i am able to fly atleast 1-2 weekends a month necessary to seeing her, and available most of the day to talk/call her. I am a laid back guy which its hard for me to show what i truly want without it seeming like a joke or seeming serious to the extent that its creepy. I was in the relationship with my ex before she told me so it was alot easier to become her daddy. How do i slowly glide into this DDLG relationship without scaring her away. I would rather stay as friends than to take the risk and her being weirded out and not talk to me. Any help would be great.

Thankyou,

DaddyyNyee

[junebug0325]

Just be patient. If you are having doubts about asking her, then it isn't the right time yet. 

[MysticSand]

^What junebug0325 said. It's exciting to find someone that's super compatible (because that's a super hard thing to do!) and taking time to let things develop naturally will be worth it.

 

I think it's worthwhile to think if she wants a daddy at this point. She may just be showing and talking to you about her little side because it's just really hard to tell people about this type of thing! So sharing it with someone with knowledge about the dynamic could be her way of expressing herself.

 

Maybe try to meet her in person first before exploring further about a relationship? I think if/when things do point more towards a relationship, have a serious conversation about limits, likes, expectations (both in regards to kinks and time spent together online and/or in RL). Ask if she wants to try vanilla dating first before transitioning the relationship to a ddlg dynamic.

 

I know this doesn't answer your question of how to ask her, but I also think you'll know how when you're ready. ^^

[FatherDaddy]

Thankyou so much for the replies, slowly getting there with her, shes opened up alot about her little space. I think itll be alot easier after i see her, thatll be in March 2020, I want to keep things at a slow pace as they have been a bit fast lately, definitely taking the patient advice thankyou.