newish daddy looking for tips

[ApachexNiyol]

Hey guys im a kinda new daddy and im looking for some tips and advice on keeping my little happy (we are strictly nonsexual). Any help or tips is greatly appreciated. 

[clo_oh]

dont be afraid to ask her if she would like rules.

you will have to set rules, but try asking if she would like any rules in particular.

 

dont be afraid to set rules. lots of CGs have trouble setting rules for their little.

looking up lists that have already been made by people via google may help. 

 

MAKE SURE SHE IS FOLLOWING THE RULES ! ! depending on the little, they may or may not be obedient!

so make sure she is following the rules you will place!

 

dont forget to tell her how much you love her, and that she can always tell you anything.
a little needs conformation! make her feel like she can trust you with all of her heart!

 

there can be some non-sexual punishments for when she break rules as well. such as having a time out corner,

taking away privileges of tv/screen time(set time depending on how many rules, and how big the rule was) and there can be many more.

you have to set punishments and have her know the rules have to be followed.

 

make sure to have a nice scheduled for her! some littles(me) have trouble keeping up a good schedule!

if she does, it may help to have a schedule the fits her!

 

keep communication! communication is sosososos important in these types of relationships!

so dont forget to check up on her and ask her about how her day was! 

 

that is all i have for right now. if i can think of more, i will edit this list to add more!

(i have already thought of more i forgot to add!)

Edited December 15, 2019 by clo_oh

[princess mae]

Ask loads of questions! Favorite color, favorite stuffie, favorite movies, for starters! Look up ddlg on pinterest, youtube and etsy too. Make a set of rules and try to work with them, but also keep an open mind because the rules you make today might change tomorrow. If you live together, set up a littlespace room, or an area where they can have their dragon's horde of toys. My littlespace area is part of our bedroom, since we don't have a spare bedroom. Last but not least, listen to each other, and don't be afraid to speak up. Me an my CG went through a rough patch when he couldn't tell I was in littlespace and needing attention, because I didn't speak up. Good luck!

[Alaskan Daddy]

Ask her what she wants most from her daddy. Tell her to be selfish when she tells you  with her wants and needs from you.  Ask her if she wants bed time stories and to be tucked in. 

Talk about rules and punishments. Ask her if there is anything her daddy can do better to care for her. 

[ApachexNiyol]

so there are days we dont get to see each other how can i tell when she slips into little space if we just texting?

[clo_oh]

so there are days we dont get to see each other how can i tell when she slips into little space if we just texting?

some little text how they think words are pronounced in little space. (ex. "pwease". )

and if she calls you "daddy" then that could also be a common indicator.  

Edited December 15, 2019 by clo_oh

[Alaskan Daddy]

as far as texting with your little you can put her into little space with role-play texts like: *gives you a big greeting hug and holds you on my lap with lots of cuddles and back rubs* My first little taught me so much about how to be a better daddy. Ask her how to care for her at times.

[chateautal]

Some purely logistical advice: plan "sessions" in advance (e.g. "We will watch this film, we will cook dinner together", etc.) and prepare what you need to ahead of time. This way, you will give off a powerful "in control" vibe, and moreover, since you won't have to be worrying about mundane things, you can spend more of your energy on your little. That being said, be flexible to change things up, as needs must - and do try to seek input or feedback from your little (though it may be worth deferring this until a time when she is not particularly deep (or at all) in little space, to not break the mood), to aid in future activities.