Canadian littles and daddys

[Daddycrossant]

Hey my fellow canadians, let's talk about ddlg

[Guest Relentlessoptimist]

Hey daddycrossant. What would you like to talk about?

[Daddycrossant]

Anything you like, from caregiving to day to day life

[Guest Peachy Paisley]

Hiya, I am Canadian too.

[Little kaiya]

[playroompunk]

*also waves hello from Ottawa*

[Guest Relentlessoptimist]

Waves from west coast. Home base is closer to saskatchewan. I travel a lot. Currently working in Alberta.

 

How are you fine true north strong and free ( ) folk doing?

 

I'm just learning about this lifestyle and my mind scape is shifting towards accepting my dom side. I've been lucky to make friends and a couple great friends here and ti have conversations with them.

 

How do you handle your little talking to other doms, especially ones that dont have their own little (I am married and only looking for platonic friendships.)? I've tried to always be polite and get them to ask their owners first for permission. I also refer them back to their owners if the question is intimate or if their owners should give permission or input first.

 

How do you manage relationships between yourself and other littles?

 

Anybody else get this pulsing feeling from adopting your inner dom or submissive? My enemy's been doing this different swirl and things just feel right.

 

Does anybody have experience finding yourself in this lifestyle wanting this when you already were in a relationship and trying to get your SO to accept the new you and this lifestyle?

 

thanks for all your input!!!

[Little kaiya]

[Guest Relentlessoptimist]

Awww that's so wholesome. I'm happy for you!!!

 

It's beautiful when people accept their inner self or explore that and I'm happy that your wife was so loving for that. That's amazing. Gives me hope with my wife.

 

I naturally consider myself a dom although I've been trying to embrace that energy more recently. I also remember being in the chat room when littles were talking and one time I felt pulled into little space .. which felt odd mentally. Apart from that though it's nice knowing that talking to adult selves is generally okay. Also while being mildly playful i dont touch or talk to somebody's little (or even discipline them if they are being a super bitey brat in the chat room because they are not mine. ) I respect that dynamic and nudge people to ask their owner for permission when questions and conversations get close to the line.

 

It's all so wonderful to meet you and everyone in the community. It's nice and feels like home to me.

[Guest Peachy Paisley]

Those are interesting questions!

 

I am the little in the relationship, but we do have an agreement that I am allowed to talk to other people when in littlespace as my daddy is gone working a lot & online is my only social thing currently. Generally he is fine with me talking to others, but if someone is trying to tell me what to do or even type handsy things towards me, it's not okay (unless it's a rare time where I really do need someone to be like "Hey, don't do that bad thing" - in which cause I usually have a friend I am allowed to turn to to help me out for those situations & generally don't' turn a stranger for that). I can't fully slip into littlespace when my daddy is gone, so I am able to keep those boundaries pretty easily though. I feel some others might have a harder time with it though (but this is just guessing on how I see other people act sometimes). 

He is a bit more wary of those who don't have their own little, but he trusts me enough to know that nothing will come from it besides just normal chatting, and if they cross the line I will let them know so they know not to do it again. 

 

When it comes to him & littles, it's pretty much the same. He is fine to talk to them if he wishes, but just in a normal way, with no boundaries crossed. He doesn't really care to though, so I've never had to worry about it a lot.

 

And the energy thing...yep! It isn't always like that, sometimes life gets too much and this is the last thing on my mind...but other times it is all I feel & it can be a pretty strong feeling! I also take CBD 3x a day, and the night stuff has high THC which super puts me into littlespace almost every evening (luckily he is usually home for it), so I feel it pretty strongly then too.

 

As for being in a relationship & realizing you are interested in this lifestyle...I was actually introduced to it by my current partner so I can't really say a lot on that.