talking to my boyfriend about being my cg

[sxnnysxge]

so my boyfriend and I have been together for about three years now and he’s always been my daddy but usually it’s only in the bedroom. I really wanna take it to the next level and be his little all the time and have rules and rewards and punishments and that sort of thing, but I’m not sure if he’ll want that. do y’all have any advice on how I could bring it up to him? thanks xx

[Kittenprincess1]

maybe bring up the subject on you calling him daddy like "you know how I call you daddy.."and maybe try to  open up to him slowly about your interest in ddlg or you being an age regressor or player by explaining how you feel and what it means to you and then ask him how he feels about you wanting him to be your caregiver.

[LittleGirlEmilia]

The advice above is pretty much what I would suggest, also there are certain hints you could give him too, cute pictures, articles, even this forum to get him used to the idea.

[Guest Looby-Lou]

Do you notice any CG behaviour from him outside the bedroom? Anything that you could say to him "I really like it when you say/do that"? It could be a good way to open up a conversation about what you'd like more of.

 

Also, if he's not showing ANY of those behaviours, then frankly I'd say there's a good chance he hasn't got it in him. Sorry to sound harsh, but I think most guy with a protective/leadership side do show it in small ways - especially if you give them the chance by showing small hints of your littleness.

 

But either way, I agree with the others, you could just open up a conversation with "I like you being my Daddy in the bedroom and I've been wondering if we could do more with that - in other parts of our life"...

 

You've been together 3 years. Have you thought how you'll feel if he doesn't want to take things further? You need to be prepared that he might not want to. (But I hope he does!)

 

Good luck

Looby 

[sxnnysxge]

UPDATE: ok so I talked to him about little space and like all of that stuff and he was like “duh I already knew about all of this you’re actually a big baby” (we joke around a lot he wasn’t being mean lol) and he said he wanted to be my cg buttt he doesn’t like the idea of being called daddy. so we gotta find a different name for him. but yay good news! We’re taking baby steps into this.

[Guest Looby-Lou]

Well done to you for opening up the conversation with him and thanks for giving us an update - especially a happy one

 

Hope you both enjoy developing this part of your relationship.

 

Looby   

[Kittenprincess1]

UPDATE: ok so I talked to him about little space and like all of that stuff and he was like “duh I already knew about all of this you’re actually a big baby” (we joke around a lot he wasn’t being mean lol) and he said he wanted to be my cg buttt he doesn’t like the idea of being called daddy. so we gotta find a different name for him. but yay good news! We’re taking baby steps into this.

 

That's great and yay a happy baby

:)congrats