Tips on being a little?

[GumdropBunny]

Me and my boyfriend are starting to get into DDLG. While he has a lot of experience in roleplaying and kinks and other stuff like that, I don't really know how to go about acting certain ways without feeling embarrassed, being unsure, or just not certain on what to do as a little in public or at home when I'm with him. Do any other littles have any tips on how to act, or even daddies with tips how their littles act and how you act towards your little to give my boyfriend some tips too! Thanks a bunch ❣

[Guest Peachy Paisley]

For me the big thing is feeling safe & like I can trust who I'm with. If I don't I really can't get into littlespace or feel *okay* doing a lot of things. So it does sound like that might be a bit of your issue, if you are feeling embarrassed & unsure, etc. But what things do you want to do when *little*? Maybe start small, it can just be colouring or wearing a cute outfit, then try that a few times, and then slowly add in other elements & see how they feel and if you still feel embarrassed or unsure. 

 

I do understand how it can be weird to get into at first, as we are told in society that acting certain ways when we grown up is no right...but try to push those things out of your mind. This is for you, let yourself embrace it! That's all I really have for now, hope it makes sense as I am groggy from a nap! lol

[Guest daddy'ssweetpea]

I have to say just be true to yourself, do what feels right and natrual to you. Like if you ever had a time you whised you could do something but held back because of what others would say because you werent a kid, well here is your chance. Every one has a uniqe way to be little and the more you spend time with your little self the easier that will become for you.

[Guest DemureBelle]

Don't force yourself to act in a certain way. Just let it come naturally to you. Every little is different and like sweetpea said, all unique in their own way. Experiment and see what you like doing, maybe try getting comfortable in your little mindset at home before trying in public.Some activities you could try is stuff like colouring, or watching cartoons together?

[Guest Sunshinekitty]

Take it slow--maybe try one activity and see if it fits how you feel in little space. No need to rush it. You're little forever.

[Molly40]

I definitly agree with the others...you can't force it and you should just be yourself. Find things you like to do as there is no right way to be a Little/Middle. What are some things you enjoyed as a  child? For me I am more of a Middle. As a kid I enjoyed legos and crafts and things of that nature. However, I was never really into dolls and things as I was a bit of a tomboy growing up. So dolls and things won't really help me feel little if  that makes sense. 

 

Also don't rush into trying to be little in public. I think focusing on in private until you are comfortable is a better way to start. Once your comfortable there then you can add things to public settings. When my husband and I first started we did things like have a "Little Day" where we picked a day of the  week or a day out of the month depending on our schedules where we would focus on trying Little things. I found it helped me feel a bit easier about trying things  because I knew what was expected during that time period. ( I tend to be a planner and feel more comfortable if I know what is expected) Also we would do things like fun pantie fridays where I would wear cute underwear under my regular clothes. They make tons of cute ones for Adults  now so they weren't hard to find. 

 

I hope that helps you some