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Brat taming in LDRs. . .(she's a tough one!)

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So like the title says.. we have a relatively new sub we've been dating and playing with for awhile now. She's VERY bratty and to clever for her own good though. She's technically my Daddy's sub, but. We both top her (I'm a switch). I can't control her when she's bratty at ALL but I also don't try to because, well. I can be a brat to Daddy too. Why would I make her (Daddy's) job any easier? :)

 

But Daddy is also having trouble taming her and we wondered if you could give us some advice. It's a distance relationship and she pushes Daddy HARD. She's very clever and can almost outsmart her sometimes. We haven't been together long enough to establish any punishments like "next time I see you I won't. . ." or anything like that because seeing each other regularly hasn't been established yet. When Daddy tries to one-up her, it's a never-ending battle and she doesn't back down .. they're both very smart so they just talk each other in circles. Lol. And when Daddy gets a little harsh with her she just calls Daddy a bitch and gets MORE defiant.

 

One thing Daddy did once was make her write lines for not following rules. She wasn't too affected by this even though it still definitely wasn't a funishment for her. Since she's more of a Middle than a Little like me, alot of the punishments Daddy would normally give me don't work or aren't appropriate. SOME still work or could work, but. Simpler punishments don't seem to do the trick. Daddy thinks she MIGHT be getting somewhere with delivering an ultimatum with a secret punishment if our brat won't do either thing. The ultimatum is admitting she likes the way Daddy fucks her or doing a homework Daddy assigns .. but if she won't do that Daddy is going to give her a time out. But not right away. And not later today. At some random point in the future when she's needy again.

 

So how can we punish her and/or make her submit and behave? Obviously Daddy can't just tie her up and spank her for being bratty and she's the kind who wouldn't spank herself.. she'd want Daddy to "make" her if she was going to at all.

 

 

Edit: Forgot to mention. I've looked online at ALOT of threads with Daddy about usual brat taming in LDRs. We haven't found much that's helped. Other posts either don't seem to come to a conclusive answer or they mention things we've tried that don't work or things we can't do because we haven't established a regular visiting time and can't because of how new our relationship with her is.

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Brat taming when you're both in different locations is really tricky, regardless of whether you're in an LDR or not.

 

Like you said, the fact that you're not there to use any physical intimidation or taming methods generally makes them even brattier. They know you're not there, so they get even more daring.

 

How needy is she though? How frequently does she communicate with you two?

 

A method I used in a previous relationship with someone who was particularly needy was to threaten to "leave her alone" for a random amount of time. This meant no texting, no calling---nothing. No communication whatsoever. After the first time, a simple reminder proved to be enough to bring her attitude under control (when she was feeling particularly cocky).

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