I'd like your thoughts on this. Thank you.

[Guest PinkBaby_Princess]

I'm a little/middle. This is who I am. Do I get needy? Yes I do. 

 

Will I be respectful if they need space? Yes. What happens when you barely hear from them?

 

It takes 2 hrs or longer to get a text, when your wanting to talk with them. It's just one text and you have to wait an hour or two to get another text?

 

Do you see this as fitting? It works for some people. I'm one for communicating. Chatting for a bit to see how they are, than keep yourself occupied when your done the conversation. The waiting game though, it's torture. It's torture for me. I'm am patient, but having to wait to get another text from them is torture.

 

One Text. Waiting. Waiting. Than the other text comes in a half hour or an hour later. When this happens, I start to question things. Especially in the beginning of the dd/lg relationship.

 

It feels like a chasing game. Does Daddies do this type of behavior? Is this reasonable? I am confused by this. 

 

Am I missing something here? If this continues to happen, I might have to give this a second thought if this is truly for me, because I shouldn't be treated like this.

[Guest Aastyra]

My first question is, has he always taken a long time to reply? Or has this become a recent thing? If it's the former, then it's possible that he's just terrible at communicating. Some people really don't text well, sadly.

 

Secondly, is he usually doing something while you text, like attending school or a job? I know that personally, I can take a couple hours to respond to people if I'm having a busy day at work.

 

It's good to have clear expectations. You should ask him to let you know if he's going to be busy during a certain time. That way you'll know why he's responding so late. This is common courtesy, and it should be reciprocated.

 

It will help to find out the cause. Afterwards, you can decide what you want to do with that information.

[Turfy]

It's really important to determine if they are ignoring you, or have a good reason for not answering right away.  I'm a Daddy with a busy job around machinery, so its sometimes quite awhile before I'll get back to texting my little ones.  I feel you should really talk to your Daddy about how you feel.  Be open and honest, cause this is a pretty big issue for you.

[Alaskan Daddy]

When ever I have been chatting with a new Little, my test if things will work for BOTH of us is not the length of time

between responses but if I am ALWAYS the first one reaching out every day or if we have not chatted for a long time. That

tells me we are not compatible with what I want. It does not mean she is a bad little, it just means we want different

things in a relationship.

My point is: If you feel that you are ALWAYS the one pushing the communication and want more than you are getting from

your daddy then maybe he is not the right daddy from you. There is nothing wrong with ending things. But if you really

like this daddy then maybe you need to communicate your concerns with him. He will never know your desires if you

don't tell him. I hope this helps and good luck

[Guest QueenJellybean]

i definitely think that if this is the way you feel, it needs to be discussed with the person involved. 

there are a lot of reasons someone replies with large gaps. 

do they have phone access at work?

did they warn you they'd be gone beforehand?

did you ask them to warn you before they go for long periods of time?

 

we don't have a lot of answers to these questions.

but they will. 

[Guest Looby-Lou]