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[DaddyWolfie]

hey everyone! i know i asked for help before but my little still doesn't have any ways of telling me when shes regressed please help me out it's hard on her not being able to tell me when she is

i also need help with ways for her to communicate when she's non-verbal please help soon! i'm in dire straits

[Guest tori251]

hi hi! this must be really difficult and i’m sorry about that but i hope this helps.

 

for regression, look for: baby talk, playing with stuffed animals or dolls, coloring, watching cartoons/kiddie shows, sippy cup/paci (if she has those), sucking on her thumb, being more quiet than usual, being clingy, sensitivity

 

non-verbal ways to communicate: write it on a white board, teach her sign language for things she wants to say, if sign language is too hard have her make up her own gestures for what she wants to say, asking yes or no questions helps a lot seeing as she can just nod or shake her head of give you a thumbs up or thumbs down, anything with letters (blocks or magnets) she can spell out what she wants to say

 

if you have any questions, feel free to message me

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Hand gestures work well when someone goes non-verbal. A particular hand sign might be something she can do. Honestly, it’s hard to communicate when you regress, for a lot of different reasons. Can you tell she’s acting “differently”? Can you find any patterns in her behavior that she might be regressed without her saying the words “I’m regressing,” “I’m little,” etc.? It’s gonna take work on both of your parts to figure this out, and hopefully a conversation with her when she’s not regressed can help illuminate what it might look like so you can know. That being said, it will still take time to learn her and get used to it! Good luck.

[DaddyWolfie]

thank you so much i'm slowly getting better at picking up the signs and acting accordingly, i've only ever had one other little and they were very low maintenance and easy to read but my current little is a bit harder to read but i love her with all my heart so i'm going to talk to her about these things tomorrow thank you all again

Yours Sincerely, Wolfie

[Guest QueenJellybean]

i would say that you guys need to sit down & have a meta-talk when she's big enough to. 

talk about how you can learn her tells. 

does she talk differently?
does she move her body differently?

is there something you can ask her that she'll respond to in a specific way when she's regressed?

 

communicate & learn together.

it shouldn't be on just one of you to figure out how your dynamic works.