Issues about little space

[Kittenkittykat]

I have developed this thing just recently, I am finding myself forcing myself out of little space and feeling disgusted at myself. I am finding myself feel really off when I call my daddy daddy. I don’t know why, because I love being little and my daddy, I feel safe and okay, but something has changed and It is really freaking me out because maybe it’s my brain telling me that I’m faking.

[sky-minded]

That sounds hard, I'm sorry you're going through it.
Has something changed recently?
It's okay to take it easy and be gentle with yourself, no one "right" way to do it.
I hope you find what's fun and good for you and your daddy.

[Guest Larkemonster]

Why do you think you might be faking it? Or why do you think you might be feeling that way (disgusted, or any other feelings)? It might be hard to discover, but maybe writing a list down might help to start to pinpoint why that through process is suddenly going on & causing you to feel this way.

 

Like, I feel disgusted because:____ 

or, I feel like I'm faking it because: _____

 

Just a thought! I personally find writing things down, even if it's a scribbled mess of all my confusing emotions at the moment...can be useful eventually, though it might not be right at the moment. It's sometimes hard to see when we are too close to the picture or just need space & time to process something new/different.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

i think many littles struggle with this sometimes.

talk to your partner.

talk to other people in the dynamic.

remember why this community and lifestyle are important to you.

 

but most importantly, 

communicate with your partner.

don't call him daddy for a bit if it makes you feel weird.

work through it together as a united force.