I need your advice!

[princessshortcake<3]

Hello! 

 

Soo i have a problem...i fall into little space pretty randomly and dont need a trigger or anything else for it.

All in all i do like that, but at the same time its kind of annoying, cause i never know when its gonna happen.

 

It happens everywhere, even at work, and i cant really control it. Most of the time it isnt that problematic cause it doesnt show too much, but sometimes it comes over me like a wave and i struggle alot speaking normal and concentrating on my work.

 

Is it just me or does this happen to you as well? And do you have a way to avoid falling into little space or to still act normal while being in little space?

 

I would really appreciate any kind of help! <3

 

 

[MrDaddydarnit]

i'd say get really good at faking being big until you can work through this problem. eventually if you try hard enough you'll be able to be big when you need to.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

this might sound weird, but you may need to have a meta-talk internally with your little side. 

 

pretend it's a friend, and sit down with it. 

explain to yourself that you need to be big sometimes, & work on a compromise. 

bring little things with you to work/your big events so that you have them.

fun candy in your purse, wear a sticker under your shirt, a small stuffed animal, listen to baby songs in the car. 

remind yourself that you can be little after you do the thing.

[Guest Sunshinekitty]

I have this problem, too. Fortunately for me--I just go straight to shy and untalkative so it's not super obvious to everyone around me, most of the time. Except when my CG is around. Then all bets are off, but at least I'm with someone safe.

 

I don't have any tricks to step away from this. I'm sorry I'm not helpful otherwise.

[princessshortcake<3]

i'd say get really good at faking being big until you can work through this problem. eventually if you try hard enough you'll be able to be big when you need to.

Yes I try my best!

Fortunately, my co workers are all a bit weird themselves, so i hope i dont stand out too much

[princessshortcake<3]

 

this might sound weird, but you may need to have a meta-talk internally with your little side. 

 

pretend it's a friend, and sit down with it. 

explain to yourself that you need to be big sometimes, & work on a compromise. 

bring little things with you to work/your big events so that you have them.

fun candy in your purse, wear a sticker under your shirt, a small stuffed animal, listen to baby songs in the car. 

remind yourself that you can be little after you do the thing.

 

I would`ve never thought of this, but I will definitely try it out! Sounds like it might work^^

[princessshortcake<3]

I have this problem, too. Fortunately for me--I just go straight to shy and untalkative so it's not super obvious to everyone around me, most of the time. Except when my CG is around. Then all bets are off, but at least I'm with someone safe.

 

I don't have any tricks to step away from this. I'm sorry I'm not helpful otherwise.

No problem, Im glad Im not the only one!