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Hey there, 

lately I have been feeling super lonely and sad.. I am a little now for a year, and I am seeing everyone, so happy with their perfect daddy and relationships.

 

Can anyone give me some advice on how to find a daddy? I know you do not search for him at all, but.. I would love someone to take care of me and shower me in affection, finally. Being a little on my own is super fun too, but I just wish I could have someone after all this time! 

 

Also another question:

How could I entertain myself while I am in little space?

 

I would be thankful for any help!:)

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Guest DemureBelle
Posted (edited)

Hi!


 


If you wanted to find a daddy, you could try posting a personal ad? Maybe reply to one that interests you the most?


 


Ooh I like to get my paci, and change into some comfy clothes and watch disney sometimes with my stuffies or have a colouring session. I like to have my favourite 'little's drink alongside it... a big mug of hot coco with marshmallows and whipped cream!


 


Just a few suggestions. Hope that helps!


Edited by LolitaLittle
Posted

Bubble bath, getting my onesie/romper (pic in my album of type)

 

I set up snacks, blankets and colouring in with any toys before my bath, I have what ever I want to watch set up too so that once in the bath I can start entering little space. Pink rubber ducks help me.

Posted

Please keep in mind that your happiness can't and shouldn't depend on another person and being in a relationship. It's an unhealthy and potentially dangerous mindset. I'm not saying that you have this mindset, but rather I am giving you a few words of caution. I don't want you to make the mistakes that so many of us have made. We wanted so badly for someone to fill a role in our lives that we let the wrong people in.

It's normal to be lonely, it's normal to want companionship. But be selective of the people you let in. There's nothing wrong with looking for someone. But don't accept just anyone. Remember that you are a treasure and the right person will treat you as such, not as a role to fulfill a fantasy.

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As a Daddy I will give my advice. First, look for a friend, someone that you can stand being around for prolonged amounts of time. Someone that is willing to look out for you just because you are their friend. Those are the best people to end up in relationships with, cause they have no expectations for  you. Just for you to be happy and healthy.  If you can find a friend like that you are golden. I have a couple like that and I consider myself a rich man. After you find a good friend, then you move forward from there. Take it a step at a time. jumping into instant relationships usually don't end well. Not saying it never does, but from what I have seen it mostly ends in failure. So take the time to invest in the ground work before you invest feelings into getting hurt.

 

As for little activities for yourself. Coloring, puzzles, cartoons, games, bubble baths, having tea parties with stuffies, dancing, or going to the park. It's far easier to be little by yourself than it is to be a Daddy by yourself. Trust me on that.

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