Need help to understand my relationship with my daddy

[Anthanasya]

Hi...im new to this lifestyle and i meet my daddy in one forum dedicated to ddlg...Well Its all started because i saw his post of a School for littles and it seem a good idea so i joined and it was basically all sex text but i was there for learn so i thought it was okay...after a few days He says i was really good and so He decided i was his little. I was really happy because the sex text was funky and He always tells me i was good, doing really good... But lately i text him a lot and He barely text back one or two messages. He even stop say good night and keep saying He is busy and He didnt get notification for my mex.

We have a long distance relationship with different time zones so i feel lonly.

My question is: its all just in my head or he is a "fake" daddy?

Thanks for reading and for anybody Will response (sorry for my bad english)

[SmolAetherr]

not enough info here to judge, but i would say talk to him.

 

ask him why he is not getting notification

ask him if its possible to make time to say goodnight

 

ask him what he wants out of a relationship with you.

[Guest Kaori]

I would like to point out that everyones version of ddlg is different and for some it's just a bedroom kink. That could be the case here. But I agree with Aetherr, you should definitely tell him you need to talk with him about something important and address your concerns. He can't know unless you communicate, he's not a mind reader.

 

I would also like to add that just because what ddlg is for him doesn't line up with what ddlg is for you doesn't mean that hes a "fake daddy" it just means that maybe you guys aren't compatible and that's okay.

[Alaskan Daddy]

I would not go as far as calling him a 'fake daddy'. I would remind you that your feelings matter as much as his do. If your daddy is not meeting your needs and desires it might be as simple you and him not being compatible. There is nothing wrong with that. If it was me I would have a conversation with him about what you want and desire from him. Just remember you may never get what you want from him. If you continue not to get what you want from the relationship, there is nothing wrong  with walking away. He does not own you. I hope this helps and good luck.

[DaddyDom3238]

I agree that you don't have enough information or have been with him long enough to know whether or not he is a "fake Daddy" or not, however I would caution you the fact that you are questioning this so soon in your relationship with him leads me to believe that your instincts are pulling you in a direction that might be accurate. If anything when a relationship is new and fresh there is naturally a lot of communication back and forth. Trust your instincts and do not settle because you feel as though you need a Daddy. 

Your self worth and and self respect come first, only then can you have a fulfilling and meaningful relationship especially in the DDLG/BDSM dynamic. I wish you the best!!