LDR- In Person

[Mari's daddy]

My little kitten and I have been doing LDR for 3 years now. I'm getting ready to go back home in the next few weeks. Im trying to find ways to make it easier for us. We're not reslly used to being together and trying to find ways to make it so we can be. I also need new ideas for punishments because spankings don't work (she likes them).

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

Hi fellow San Diegan! I'm not so sure I completely understand your question..you want to find ways to make it easier when you're together? I can't really answer your question until I can comprehend it, sorry

 

As for punishments, corner time and writing lines are effective for me. Corner time, for me, is sitting in the corner and facing the wall. I can't really do anything but reflect my actions. Writing lines is self-explanatory- I have a specific journal that is used to write sentences however long Daddy sees fit. I hope that helps a bit!

[Mari's daddy]

Hey pouty kitten, I think the point I'm trying to get to is that I been in the military for 3 years. I'm bout to go back home and finally be with my little one. I'm just trying to figure out things that was can do, so it's not so awkward or quiet when we're together. It's not usually like that but we aren't usually able to hangout for more then 1-2 weeks at a time for when I'm able to go home. Just looking for things we can do it help that out.

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

Oh! Okay, that makes more sense. There's tons of things you can do like: watch movies, play board games/card games, go to museums, take her out for a picnic, go for a walk, bookstore, color together, arts and crafts projects, bake/cook together, bubble baths, etc.

 

Since you two haven't seen each other as often, I'm sure things won't get awkward between the two of you.

[Mari's daddy]

That's very good, I'm take her to Disneyland around Christmas time. I'm try to make it as easy as possible being together and fun. I'm excited to be going back to be with her. How long have you been daddy's little girl for?

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

I'm sure she will love that! Disneyland is the best during Christmas time. You two will have loads of fun, I'm sure

 

I've been with my Daddy for 4 years now

[Jnaz]

hey... i think this link would help for new punishments,,, just pick something that you think will be good don't have to use them all you can test fe and see which is more effective...

i am kinda doing LDR too, maybe its good if you give her space sometimes so you will get to talk about what have you been doing through the day... or just get wasted

[Mari's daddy]

PK yeah we're trying to do a trip and go explore LA since we never really get to. Thank you for the help and ideas.

 

 

Jnaz I can't see the link. Try again to send it