How to be a better submissive...

[Guest little_moonx]

god please help me be a better submissive... my relationship is on the line

[MasterPhotog]

Just be yourself and you will do fine! 

[SmolAetherr]

more details would help us give you less vague advice but yeah, be yourself!

 

if your take on submission is not enough or not what your partner wants as hard as it is to say but nothing will fix that.

 

i can't even say for sure what is going on its really difficult to be helpful here.

Edited November 3, 2019 by Aetherr

[Guest purpleroses06]

I'm not quite sure what's going on but don't force yourself or pretend to be something your not for someone else, if you not being submissive puts ur relationship on the line then that's a problem, and you should most likely reconsider your relationship, everyone has their own way of being submissive as well, and every Dom has a certain way they like their subs to be submissive.

[Aramis]

Creo que el enfoque está mal. En todo caso deberías hablarlo con tu Daddy/Mommy a esto. Nadie nació con experiencia en nada, pero de a poco se va aprendiendo. Tambien tiene que ver con tus gustos. No por querer ser "mejor sumiso/a" estás obligado a aceptar cosas que no te agradan. Y si tu relación depende de qué tipo de sumiso seas, pues entonces no es una relación sincera. Perdón si suenan duras mis palabras. 

[Aramis]

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Edited November 4, 2019 by Aramis

[LittleTeacup]

Hey, I don't know if there's more to your story than what you told me in pm, but don't beat yourself up! You're not a bad submissive. If anything, he wasn't clear enough with you. Being submissive doesn't equal being passive. You're allowed to have wants and needs.

 

Please take care of yourself. No relationship is worth the pain of hiding part of yourself. *hugs*