I want more rules to follow, but I'm not too sure what I should add

[babybuns]

        I've been thinking of discussing with my daddy incorporating more

rules that I could follow that would help me take care of myself and shape

my behavior. However, I'm not too sure what kind of rules that I should

talk to him about potentially adding.

 

         I'm also excited to make a cute rules chart that I have to follow, with

punishments and rewards that come with breaking/following them,

because I enjoy putting stuff like that together   

 

         Please share potential rules that my daddy and

I can add into our relationship! Then I'll talk to him

later on about these rules. 

 

        Right now at the moment the only rules that I have are

 

        Bedtime is at 11pm on work days

        1am on days where there's no work

        Brushing my teeth twice a day

        Washing my face at night

[Guest Sunshinekitty]

I'm in the same place.

 

My biggest problem is getting consistency in the rules I 'sort of' have.

 

Having said that--maybe a fifteen minute walk a day? A little journal you keep for the week and hand over to your daddy?

 

I'm really looking forward to seeing what everyone else suggests.

[Little Marie]

A couple of my Favorite rules that me and my daddy have are:

I have to always ask before having any type of sweets!

Tell Daddy my daily plans and if anything changes so he knows what i'm doing!

Always tell daddy when I'm sad or upset!



We have a lot more, but those three I think are important ones for us littles to have!


Little Marie
 

[emiuwu]

Me and my daddy's general rules are

 don't ever hurt myself intentionally

 don't talk bad about myself

 no bad words or cursing at daddy

 give daddy at least 10 kisses a day
 don't force myself to do anything i don't like
 always say thank you daddy and use manners with daddy
 always tell daddy when i don't feel or good or if i feel sad
 don't talk back
 always let daddy see the outfits i'm planning
 compliment myself in the mirror when i wake up and and when i go to bed

 

i hope this was some good inspiration <3

Edited October 29, 2019 by suki <3

[babybuns]

        Thank you! I think that there are some really nice rules here that I'll definitely

think about adding into my rules chart when I believe that I've gathered a good 

amount to discuss about with my daddy! uwu

 

        These are all really nice   

[Guest Sweetbottoms]

I like the rules you have and that you have a reward system which is a very good incentive. It's a great way to build self-esteem and also it's a great way to build your independence as a little. as a little I like to be able to be comforted loved and protected but at the same time I want to be able to stand on my own two feet and not rely too much on others. Independence is a great accomplishment and it makes you feel good about yourself. You sound like you have a very great relationship with your daddy. That's beautiful.

 

Eat your veggies, or do your homework?

Perhaps helping daddy do something throughout the work week?

When you use something put it back? Read one book a day? Exercise and do your stretches?

 

Clean your room see how long you can keep it neat and clean the bed made nicely arranging your stuffies in a fancy creative way and if he sees you are creative doing so he gives you extra rewards? I have tried to set rules with my in real life daughter but I find it difficult to keep rules with her cuz I feel like it conflicts with her voice and hearing her and her needs. I usually like to give children their choices what do you want to be responsible for how are you going to keep up with the responsibility? If you keep it up we get to go somewhere special like movie theater or a very big park or the zoo.

My favorite place when I was a kid was Chuck-E-Cheeses. Lol

 

Another good idea is for the responsibilities you have have a visual for what you must do so you have velcro squares with images of what you need to do for that day and then you have a chart that has Velcro on it with two sections the first section has to do with you need to do what you need to do and all the chores or images are on the left side and the square area is green. Then the right side that says done and all the squares are red that's the section where you put the chore in the red Square which means you have completed the task I'll show you a picture of what I'm talking about. But it helps you with like if you're a visual learner and also it's fun cuz you get to put pictures on Velcro and the pictures are cute but I think they're cute.

[Guest Sweetbottoms]

I tried to attach did chart image butt it seems that's the picture that just too large so sorry if I couldn't attach it seems like this forum is using an old system which is fine but putting that picture up is really hard.

[babybuns]

Oooh thank you for your ideas!! I appreciate it a lot. I really like these. I think I forgot to mention that our relationship is long distance, at least for now. He lives less than 2 hours away from me, so it won't be too long until we meet each other. I'll for sure save some of these ideas for later when we actually start seeing each other in person. I can use most of these in our current state, with perhaps some alterations to make it work! uwu thank you for your ideas, I really appreciate them.

 

And yeah, my daddy and I have a close relationship and I really love him lots and lots. He's not only my daddy, but he's also like my best friend   

 

Side note:

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