Not feeling so little..

[Guest Moon-Pixie]

This is something that really has got me upset. I love being little but currently I feel lost... I don't know where I stand and I'm sure it maybe my depression or maybe stress.. lately I can't be little at all

 

So much so I am considering and starting to give away my little gear..

 

I don't know what to do or who to turn to for help..

 

I don't know if I should call myself middle or little or something else..

 

I also am starting to feel alone

I know I am not alone but.. everyone around me is little

 

and I feel like I'm losing that side of me and it makes me want to cry...

 

Is anyone else feeling this way?

Have you ever felt this way?

 

What was something(s) you have done to help you find your little self again?

 

Thank you for any help and advice

[Guest Voidart]

This goes without saying, i'm not a little. So take this with a grain of salt, pepper and other spices. 
Also i'm no 'hardcore' ddlg:er!

Me, personally, I feel that i do not want to be in a certain 'space', i'm just me - whether it'd be inside or outside of ddlg space in general. 
Because life takes place, and I want to be able to deal with it like a mature human being. 
I often times see people who take it to the extreme with 'little-space' where it starts affecting their daily life routines. 
I personally, do not condone that. However, there are a few people who can manage it and still deal with life, work etc..  So more power to you if you can!
So i wouldn't really fret as long as you stay open minded to change. 

Perhaps what you need is to experiment or discover yourself in ddlg? 
You can grow into it as well as out of it. You mentioned becoming a middle in uncertainty, and that is completely understandable.
But with time comes change, and perhaps the time has come to embrace a new aspect in life?

Also middles are just as wanted (if not more due to how rare they are) as littles. 

At the end of the day, ddlg is what you make of it. 

And when it comes to loneliness, there's a thread somewhere around here where you can make new friends.
Feel free to message me if you want. 

I hope that you'll see yourself with a new bright light.

[Guest Moon-Pixie]

This goes without saying, i'm not a little. So take this with a grain of salt, pepper and other spices. 

Also i'm no 'hardcore' ddlg:er!

Me, personally, I feel that i do not want to be in a certain 'space', i'm just me - whether it'd be inside or outside of ddlg space in general. 

Because life takes place, and I want to be able to deal with it like a mature human being. 

I often times see people who take it to the extreme with 'little-space' where it starts affecting their daily life routines. 

I personally, do not condone that. However, there are a few people who can manage it and still deal with life, work etc..  So more power to you if you can!

So i wouldn't really fret as long as you stay open minded to change. 

Perhaps what you need is to experiment or discover yourself in ddlg? 

You can grow into it as well as out of it. You mentioned becoming a middle in uncertainty, and that is completely understandable.

But with time comes change, and perhaps the time has come to embrace a new aspect in life?

Also middles are just as wanted (if not more due to how rare they are) as littles. 

At the end of the day, ddlg is what you make of it. 

And when it comes to loneliness, there's a thread somewhere around here where you can make new friends.

Feel free to message me if you want. 

I hope that you'll see yourself with a new bright light.

I have been into dd/lg for 4yrs now and have been little most of that time not 24/7 because there are times when being an adult is needed.

 

So i have explored quiet a bit although the whole having a daddy part has been online I still like to think it kind of counts

 

I am not to sure how many people enjoy middles but it is nice to know they are accepted.

 

Change sometimes is scary but if it is something that is happening I suppose I will have to accept it and embrace it.

 

Also hope one day that I will reconnect with little me again.