I need to rant.

[nikkijanuary]

A little background.. 

 

I'm 53, my ex is 64. I'm transgender mtf. He misgenders me a lot and also interrupts and just talks over me like my identity and voice are not important. 

 

I have a few chronic life-long illnesses. He doesn't take care of himself and I am trying to get healthy. Even though we broke up over this stuff, he still resides in my house. 

 

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I feel like I have to pick up after him, clean up after him and pull teeth to get his help with chores. 

 

I have a doctor telling me I need stomach surgery on top of needing hand surgery. I can't be HIS caregiver which is NOT a role I wanted ever, and be my own at the same time. 

 

I just want to be heard and given a little care and not be ignored!! 

[Guest littlebabyslittlespace]

Kick him out!

[ForeverFluffy]

It sounds like he's been very disrespectful and unfair towards you. Though I don't know why he's still in your home, I would say that you need to insist on being treated with respect and need him to do his fair share or he can get the hell out. That kind of behavior towards him isn't okay.

[Guest purpleroses06]

He shouldn't be living with you in the first place. He's a grown ass man and should be taking care of himself. Even as you take care of him he is still very disrespectful to you, and rude! You shouldn't be dealing with that, especially with misgendering, you guys are no longer together and he should get the hell out and get on his own!

I hope you get rid of him, and get the care you need, especially with surgery! I wish you the best of luck, and hope everything turns out well!!

[SmolAetherr]

but thats the thing, you dont have to be his caregiver dont pick up after him and dont acknowledge his presence

 

get some written document or police to force him to leave, you dont have to endure any of that but im sure you already know!!

 

good luck!

[Silkyblacklace]

Edited October 19, 2019 by Silkyblacklace