I'm gonna rant (cause Im sad)

[Shylittleon3]

So I joined a dating app because I'm lonely and just wanted to see what was out there. I mean I don't know if I could date someone who wasn't a caregiver or daddy long term but still I wanted to try. I met this guy and we started talking. Now I'm not attractive or anything but I didn't think I was terrible looking, just very overweight. We lived within the same town, I had actually seen him a few times at his job and thought he was adorable and seemed nice. Well, he had seen me when we stumbled upon each other and we both did what anyone would do, avoided the fact we had been talking. Then we never talked again. Now at his job when my sister and I go in to buy things he very obviously might i say looks the other way trying to... I don't even know what he's trying to do but my sister says that he doesn't act that way when I'm not with them. They find it funny that he does that just because it's me. It hurts and then i have everything else going on. Life has just been so mean to me lately. I just want to crawl into a cave and die. Lol my depression is coming on real hard after trying to avoid it the last few months. Fml

[MysticSand]

I don't think this situation is caused by your looks. It honestly just sounds like a typical awkward situation. I imagine unless you're super close buds with someone online first, it's always gonna be awk meeting someone in person vs just online interaction. Add in the meeting on a dating app thing and that's like +50 awk points.

 

Have you tried messaging him again after seeing him in person? It could be the fact that he just didn't know what to say after meeting you in person and was too shy/awkward to message first. Is this the case? Or did you message him after and he did the ghosting thing?

[Shylittleon3]

We didnt schedule a meeting it was an accident we were in the same gas station and i tried to message him after he just didn't reply

[Guest ~GlitterUnicorn~]

That doesn't mean it was cause by your looks, I'm sure you're beautiful!

Perhaps he didn't know how to handle things and became anxious and begun to over think things.

[Guest purpleroses06]

ahh this is something that can be cause by many things tbh, not just by how you look!

I would say that maybe you guys didn't connect when you met, and seeing on how there was no connection, he didn't see a reason to keep talking. And yes it can also be the fact that it was an awkward meeting especially since it wasn't planned, it can cause mixed emotions, seeing on how he might of been embarrassed of it he kinda just left. If he did leave because how you deem yourself to be, then he doesn't deserve you. You deserve someone who will love you regardless of weight or looks, and if they leave becuz of that then they're not meant for you, and you'll find someone in the future who will treat you right instead of ghosting you. Life sucks, but if you ever wanna rant/talk I'll be here! I hope things get better for you soon!!

[DominicanDaddy]

Or he can just be an ass. Seriously what other reason could there be for treating someone like they don't exist? He is probably one of those guys that rather go for looks than personality. A woman is just like a book. The cover of a book resembles a person's appearance, they dont like the appearance so they put the book down. Rather than just reading the book cover to cover (the words or story resembling a persons personality) and realizing what a beautiful and great book/woman they have. Point being EVERYONE young and old are special in one way or another, but people won't even see this unless they take the time to READ THE BOOK.