Vaar'ika Posted October 13, 2019 Report Posted October 13, 2019 So I'm sure there's plenty of topics in multiple categories about getting into little space, but this is a very unique subject. We're in a long distance relationship. We talk daily via text, phone call, and video chat, but she only ever goes into little space when we text. I've tried a lot of different things to get her into little space over voice and video, but it just never works. What are some ways that you get yourself into little space? What does your CG do to get you into little space? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
PrincessOfWhales Posted October 13, 2019 Report Posted October 13, 2019 she might just be shy about letting you hear her be little dont pressure her and just give her some time do you guys watch movies together? like on skype or phone? there are apps to allow you to watch movies together... i know animals and disney movies bring out my little side, so maybe watch a movie with her and prior to it, make sure you tell her to go get snacks and drinks and tell her to get comfy before you start the movie. maybe in the middle of the movie, pause it and tell her to go potty real quick and when she comes back ask her if she needs anything before you start the movie its small things, for me, that bring out my little side... but its different for everyone 1
Guest Sugarsnap Posted October 13, 2019 Report Posted October 13, 2019 Does she feel like there is a lot of pressure to be in little space during video/phone calls? Depending on how long you've been together it could also be a matter of comfort/time. 1
M-a-d-i Posted October 13, 2019 Report Posted October 13, 2019 So I'm sure there's plenty of topics in multiple categories about getting into little space, but this is a very unique subject. We're in a long distance relationship. We talk daily via text, phone call, and video chat, but she only ever goes into little space when we text. I've tried a lot of different things to get her into little space over voice and video, but it just never works. What are some ways that you get yourself into little space? What does your CG do to get you into little space? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks! As a little who currently finds it difficult to be in little space in front of people, I appreciate that your actively trying to help your little! For me personally it’s really hard because I really want to be little in front of others, but I feel like I just can’t. People are saying make sure you don’t pressure or smother your little, I say you should talk to your little and ask them what they want. If they want your help to be little on video chat, and their comfortable with what you two discuss, I say go all out babying! Pet names, referring to yourself as daddy, any other things that you know your little likes. Just go all out daddy mode! Once again I’d like to say, that’s after having a conversation and you are both comfortable with that plan! Good luck to you two!
Quirkygrl16 Posted October 16, 2019 Report Posted October 16, 2019 I definitely would say for me it's hard to be little in front of someone..I get so self conscious 1
lacey bunny Posted October 20, 2019 Report Posted October 20, 2019 (edited) Have you asked your Little why she struggles or what you can do to help her get more comfortable with it? My Daddy and I are long distance. Back when we were friends he knew I was a Little. Yet I was still finding difficulties to be Little outside of text because I was scared of how he would respond to it. We started off watching shows and movies together. One of my sticker rewards was watching my Little Space shows/movies with him. It helped me invite him into that space and allow him to be involved. Watching shows evolved into playing games together which was another way I could be Little Spacey around him.I have a Little Journal that he gets me to write in when he's gone/busy. He'll pick my prompts (I literally have over 100 of them) and whenever he can I'll read/tell him about what I wrote in it. His Daddy Space helps me too! Things like asking me if I've eaten, done what I needed to that day, at random ask me if I have water, asking me how my stuffies are doing, referring to himself as "Daddy" is a nice one too. I asked him what he does to help me get into Little Space. He said, "I can just call you baby then you'll just turn into putty and instantly be Little." ):< He has too much power...Just keep trying to show her your a safe place... It takes some awhile to fully understand that someone can provide and be that safe place. (My Daddy had to be really patient with me while I figured that out) Anyway, I hope your Little is able to find that comfort level with you soon, Vaar'ika. Edited October 20, 2019 by lacey bunny
Guest ~GlitterUnicorn~ Posted October 20, 2019 Report Posted October 20, 2019 Have you tried talking to her about it? Maybe she's anxious about it?
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