Switches ?

[meows kohai]

[Guest purpleroses06]

Yes I am a switch! I am primarily a little, but I love taking care of littles as well, it feels so special and sweet to be a mommy! I 10/10 recommenced you into being a switch if you feel like it, its a wonderful thing!

[Little kaiya]

There are definitely switches. Personally I am 100% not a switch and even if I was I absolutely couldn't ever even imagine switching with my Daddy, who is thankfully not a switch either.

 

Having talked to a number of switches, both in the DDlg and D/s context, they say it can be awesome, so long as both parties are sure to respect the needs of the other, otherwise it can become quickly lopsided and very stressful.

 

Little kaiya

[dy_dx]

I'm a switch! I am mostly a CG but I also get into little space alot. I more want to be someone's CG but in little space don't usually need a CG. My switchy friends give me plenty of CG attn!

 

Oh and as for what Little kaiya said -- Yes, it's very important to make sure everyone's needs are respected, like any other relationship. The way switches are unique is that they fill more roles than a little or just a CG. But that's also true for little's who are also subs or slaves. In many cases, switches roles are more different than say a little who is also a sub. But it's not universal.

 

For example, I don't need to date someone who would act as my CG to be satisfied; I can be very happy dating someone who is just a little. I would want to be little friends at least if I was dating a little! So, it's nuanced! Just the label doesn't tell you much beyond "I can be on both sides of the slash in some way".

[RopeSwitch]

Meeeeeeeeeeeee ! I'm a little who does not need a caregiver (or at least, I don't feel a strong need for that), but I have a CG side. I feel I could be like a big brother to my little or something like that - I wouldn't be just big, but rather the bigger little taking care, well, of the more little of us (not sure if anyone understand this ^^').

[TheTrainer]

9 times out of 10 Daddy, but sometimes we switch and usually it's in the moment like she's fully diapered, plugged and vibed and isn't allowed to touch anything or please herself until she demonstrates on me how bad she needs it. This invariable switches us in the moment and she tortures me like a bratty little slave.