Advice on asking Daddy a hard question.

[Guest Kitten1999]

Hi-ho. I have a sort of platonic Daddy, and he is so amazing. But I wonder if he's talking to other Littles like he does to me. How do I ask him if he is or not without seeming jealous and overly possessive? Advice is greatly appreciated.

Much love!

[PrincessOfWhales]

you just ask him!

communication is key in any relationship.

if you cant go to your Daddy with anything and everything, then who can you go to!?

its seriously one of the best things about having a Daddy.

 

if he is an "amazing" daddy like you say, then he wont mind any questions or concerns

but have you guys set any rules up like that? he is able to talk to other littles and you other daddys?

if you havent had that talk, you definitely should. you both need to know what is expected of each other.

[Guest Kitten1999]

We haven't, but we probably should. Thank you for the input!

[Little kaiya]

I agree that you should just ask him but you also need to prepare yourself to hear an answer you may not really like.

 

If you haven't had a discussion about where the both of you stand in relation to being able to talk to others that's really, really critical. Open, honest communication is a cornerstone for any relationship, whether platonic or romantic. It's not always easy but it is always important and worth doing.

 

You should also ask yourself what do you do if he says yes or no. Are you ok with him talking to other littles? If he isn't talking to them now what about in the future? Do you want to redfine the relationship? Go into the discussion ready to talk about a lot of things, not just one question.

 

Little kaiya

[hurtnolivingthing]

Just to echo what has been said Kitten1999.

 

You two need to talk. Rules like this, need to be agreed upon at the outset.

Otherwise, if you're both not on the same page..  someone will probably get hurt.

 

Don't put it off. Talk to him.

 

Best wishes.

[Guest Kitten1999]

Thank you so much, everyone. It's amazing to have feedback from you guys, thanks for being so nice to me.

[hurtnolivingthing]

Thank you so much, everyone. It's amazing to have feedback from you guys, thanks for being so nice to me.

 

You're welcome Kitten1999

 

Keeping my fingers crossed for you.

[Lovingukdaddy]

This is like any other relationship. You need to talk. You shouldn't be made to feel anxious if you have a question. If he's don't nothing wrong then he will be happy to answer your concerns and put them to bed.

 

If you'd like 5o talk more then don't hesitate to pm me

[PrincessJasmine_little]