Sleeping with a Pacifier

[Mommy's_Bunny]

I sleep with a pacifier in my mouth every night. At my school we are having a lock in, and next weekend I'm having a sleepover in the tent outside in the backyard with my mommy and 3 best friends. They don't know I'm a little. Other than Mommy of course. I have to sleep with it every night, and I'm really really nervous. Will they make fun of me? I remember I was in little space on a call with my ex once... and his friends joined... Once my ex left to go use the bathroom... his friend said "Take the (naughty word) pacifier out of your mouth, your not two. It's disgusting and (naughty word) highly unatractive." Since then I don't even let the closest of my friends know... What will the girls at my sleepover gonna think? And the lock in? I'm scared...

[Guest littlebabyslittlespace]

I'd say don't take your pacifier. It isn't appropriate to use it infront of non consenting people

[Little kaiya]

At the end of the day even though we're littles we're still adults and so need to be able to act as such. Taking it to school seems inappropriate to me as it's not something all if your school mates need to or want to know. As for your friends spending the night, you can either tell them, not tell them and risk getting caught out or not use it.

 

You do you but please consider not just your own needs and desires but also those of the people around you.

 

Little kaiya

[Guest ~GlitterUnicorn~]

Pacis can also be used for anxiety and stuff like that

If you're in a sleeping bag it'll be easy to hide if you wish

You can always say it soothes me - pacis aren't inherently kinky or bdsm based so it's a bit of a gray area to the "public can't consent"

 

Don't shove it in their face but it should be easy to keep it to yourself if you use a paci clip and kinda hide it in the sleeping bag

[ScarletBaby]

Pacis can also be used for anxiety and stuff like that

If you're in a sleeping bag it'll be easy to hide if you wish

You can always say it soothes me - pacis aren't inherently kinky or bdsm based so it's a bit of a gray area to the "public can't consent"

Don't shove it in their face but it should be easy to keep it to yourself if you use a paci clip and kinda hide it in the sleeping bag

I completely agree, there’s no reason that you can’t use it if you need it. I sleep much better with a pacifier than without so I understand wanting to use it and understand it being something sleep doesn’t happen if you don’t use one. It’s far fetched to think that you can simply go without it when it’s become a habit and there’s some psychological dependency that has likely developed. If you do have someone notice then say it’s for stress and was suggested by a psychologist or psychiatrist at one point. People question doctors less. And if they are really your friend, then they won’t care. Real friends are just supportive and will want you to be as relaxed as possible when you’re with them. I don’t tell a lot of people, but my closest friends do know and support me being me. I’m not saying everyone is that way, but friends that are true friends that care about you, usually won’t mind.

[lacey bunny]

You can try to sleep without your paci before then
Wean yourself so you will be able to have nights without it

[SenpaisKitten]

I think for the school sleep over, try ur best without it...maybe try using ur thumb instead? Chalk it up to a bad childhood habit.

 

With you close friends u can either explain if they are open minded enough or, try ur thumb, or try to go without. I think ur thumb or going without is the best options if ur not ready to be that open