Age Gap

[minty☆]

[Nymph]

The age is just a number saying is true, I just wish people realized it goes both ways.

 

Also I come from a culture where age gaps are normal, so it will not even register to me unless you are talking about a decade or more.

 

When I was younger I limited myself to older men. I then realized some of these men searched for younger women because they were very immature and that a smaller age gap or even a younger daddy doesn't mean that he can't guide you and be nurturing.

 

But if you are not looking for that connection and the age gap is the actual thing that turns you on, then it's a kink and it's cool, as long as everyone knows where they stand. I don't think it's fair to be liked just because of your age... little age goes hand in hand with personality so that is not too bad... but here is where it gets tricky in this community, some people will like the age gap and assume that is what we are about, which is not if it happens to be one whatever, if there is not, whatever just keep it legal and don't be a meanie.

[LittleMsRhapsody]

I had always been attracted to older men and I had never thought anything of it, I never felt like it was wrong. As long as both parties are consenting adults, I don't think age should matter so much. I'm 23 and my daddy is 58 and we have been together since I was 18. I never felt that our relationship was wrong or dirty. It felt like any other relationship. We get along wonderfully and have many of the same interest.

 

However I have found that a lot of times people look down on our relationship. I have heard comments about him being a sugar daddy, or that he is only with me now for the sex. He also get a lot of flack on his side as well.

 

at the end of day though, if you make each other happy then it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

[Guest hideouslovely]

Age gaps is an interesting topic and it seems to be quite a personal thing.  To some, an age gap of 10 years seems significant and for others that's pretty normal.

 

I don't think that an age gap matters in the slightest because a person can be of a greater age and still be immature or irresponsible.  Wisdom doesn't necessarily come with age!  And that's what's important to me - a partner that I can depend on and trust.  Someone responsible who knows how to care for me a fulfil the role of daddy.

 

On a personal note, I've always been attracted to older men but never younger men.  I guess that's one of my kinks. 

[Guest sanwiooaf]

In my opinion, age doesn't matter so long as you love each other and are both over 18

 

however, as a personal preference, I couldn't date anyone more than 5/6 years older than me and maybe 2/3 years younger. I haven't been dating that long (literally about a year of my 23 years of being alive) so I would rather stick to people my age (my current bf/daddy is 17 months younger than me) :3

[Baby Bunny Boo]

I have to be honest i personally have yet to see or hear of a relationship (specifically between a woman collage age and man 30+) that was healthy. I've seen plenty of stories and have quite a few of my own. Of men on this very site and fet who are not mature enough for a woman close to their age so they go after "barley legal" ones. It angers me seeing it and grosses me out. If that's what your into great. But i personally can't support it.

 

Edit:spelling

Edited May 27, 2020 by Baby Bunny Boo

[littlesweetheart29]

I believe that as long as both parties are adults and consent, then it's all good. It's also important that both parties are on the same page about what they want, as it is for any relationship really. I'm personally in an age gap relationship and it has worked out well for me thus far. Both of us knows what the other wants and we have incredibly similar goals and aspirations. 

[Guest clumsy_little]

I'm 18 and my Daddy is 65. Before I didn't want anyone to be older than 30 but we just clicked. Since then it really doesn't matter to me that he's 47 years older than me.

[jaredstone363]

I don't feel age matters, I've dated littles that were 22yrs younger then me and I've dated littles that were my age. I think chemistry and vibe are more important then age.

[Littlenicole40]

I don’t know because I am new to this and seems like everyone is different but I prefer someone older 10-20 years.  But I want like a realer father/daughter relationship too and not just like bedroom stuff and for me it seems like the age gap helps and he would be more like my father.  I dunno if that makes sense.

[LittleCoffeeMug]

I don't think it matters when it comes to the age gap (just as long as both parties are 18+).

Ive only dated people close to my age but am open to someone older or younger we just have to mesh well and be compatible. I've never had a DD/CG so I want to try to stay open about age but I know that's hard sometimes.

[WADaddy]

There is one very important thing to remember with an age gap. If one person is still in the 18-early 20's, that's a time of huge change and growth. An older partner is more set in their ways.

It's possible to grow and change together, but it can also go the other way. Personally, I lost an amazing 4 year relationship partly due to that.

Even more than any other relationship, communication is absolutely vital to ensure the health of the relationship.

[Kitten&Spice]

Personally I think it all depends! Some people have a personal preference towards having older Doms and some prefer to have them within the same age range! I think it all depends on what the person is looking for! I do have other opinions on if you are dating as it seems to me that the older you are the harder it is to find similarities and goals!

 

If I did have to give a number I do think 20 years to me is something to consider as a cut off! As people get older their view on life, what they want to do, and goals change! This isn’t to say that it is a deal breaker but I have had some issues with Doms that are of a considerably older age! They were wonderful people but our goals and what we would be able to do together did give some issues! And with me at my age I tend to be more adventurous and curious about the world over someone who has experienced the world in it’s entirety and already settled down!

 

Again this is just a personal preference and really it all depends on you!

[WigglyBun]

The issue I have with it is when someone purposely goes for younger folks because they are easier to mold, take advantage of etc. This probably stems from my horrible experiences growing up and being very naïve and gullible and being taken advantage of by older men, so it's very hard to not see the red flags in some of these relationships when I see them now. That being said, I know not all of them are like that at all.

My biggest age gap in dating (as an adult) was 22 years, and at the time it worked out very well as he was really kind and amazing and there was no pressure to do things I wasn't ready for, etc. Right now I still do go for men older than me, but most of them seem to be married now and that is a deal breaker for me as I am not into poly or being the side woman, etc.

Edited June 15, 2022 by MsWiggles

[beanbean]

yeah i think there are pro and cons for a big age gap for sure .but it mostly has to do your fit with the person if you fit like a glove it most likley wont  matter.but on the other hand older and younger people do have things that they do differently. but its by a case by case mostly