Do I love my Daddy too much?

[PapasGirl]

Hey everyone! I could use some help with my Daddy. He and I are crazy about each other and I have found the best Daddy for me. But because of how much I love him I feel like I keep messing things up because I’m so paranoid he doesn’t love me back as much as I love him. He messages me so much but if some days he doesn’t message me as much I get upset and wonder if he doesn’t feel as strong. I’ve never been as dependant on someone before and I feel like it’s turning me into a crazy person. I’m worried I will push him away with my paranoia and my constant need for his reassurance.

How do I maintain my role as his little who is crazy about him without needing constant reassurance and potentially throwing away the best thing that’s ever happened to me?

Am I the only one who loses themselves in their Daddy/little relationship like this? Help please!

[Guest Babygirlsweden]

I don't think you are the only one, I can most definitely get the same way! I suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder so I know that some of my insecurities come from there. But I think you should tell your Daddy about how you are feeling. I think it would be good for both of you to truly know what's going on. 

[Guest ~GlitterUnicorn~]

Nods id try communicating your feelings! That way you can see how he feels so I'm sure that'll reassure him and it'll show him how you're feeling

[Metalheaddaddy]

Why space in a relationship is a good thing.

 

https://www.ellecanada.com/life-and-love/relationship-advice-why-emotional-and-physical-space-is-a-good-thing/

Edited October 1, 2019 by Guest

[Bluelace]

In my experience it can be very easy to lose yourself in these relationships. For me it was because I had never handed so much of myself over to someone. For me sense I had never been in a sub type of role it had opened up a vulnerability in me that I never had to deal with before because I always kept a large bit of myself to myself. It required a level of trust I had never given before.

 

This relationship your in can set you free in a beautiful way that you might never have felt before, but it can be scary. Know you are not alone with how you are feeling. But he is your Daddy, your safe place. When you are not feeling so scared talk with him about it. Let him know what is going on in your head. During the times he gets busy try just reminding yourself, you are loved, you are cherished, sometimes life gets busy and he will be back to talking to you as soon as he can.

Keep in mind yes it is part of who he is to take care of you, but also think of the fact of as a part of being his is for you to take care of him. Daddy's have needs to and as part of being his it is up to you to figure out what you need to do to make his life better too. Some of it are things that he might not see either or that he will worry about talking to you about because it could make him feel like a failure as a Daddy, because he thinks he should be able to be your rock and never have some of these basic normal human moments.

Now I might have read to much into this post and spouted off way to much. I just know that feeling and trying to help. Talk to him when not in that head space and when going on come up with a montra to remind yourself. As well as get some people that understand your position so you can talk to them when going out of your mind a bit.

Good luck dear.

[Guest Littledreamer95]

Hey everyone! I could use some help with my Daddy. He and I are crazy about each other and I have found the best Daddy for me. But because of how much I love him I feel like I keep messing things up because I’m so paranoid he doesn’t love me back as much as I love him. He messages me so much but if some days he doesn’t message me as much I get upset and wonder if he doesn’t feel as strong. I’ve never been as dependant on someone before and I feel like it’s turning me into a crazy person. I’m worried I will push him away with my paranoia and my constant need for his reassurance.

How do I maintain my role as his little who is crazy about him without needing constant reassurance and potentially throwing away the best thing that’s ever happened to me?

Am I the only one who loses themselves in their Daddy/little relationship like this? Help please!

It's ok to love him as much as you do. BUT space is extremly important, do not let your insecurities (if he doesn't reply, for example) to ruin your relationship.

Is all very lovely, but people need space for themselves aswell. To breathe, to be themselves, is healthy and needed.

In the long future, it might become a bit asphyxiating for him

[PapasGirl]

Thank you all so much! This really helped. I think I need to allow us both a little space and just relax and enjoy it. And you are right I have to think about his needs as well. Thank you all so much xx