Going Through Upsetting Situations and Regretting DDLG?

[Guest Kitten1999]

[Guest ~GlitterUnicorn~]

Perhaps you need to take some time to look after yourself, and see how you feel! If the people you met made you uncomfortable maybe you could reach out to staff?

[Guest LittleBunBun84]

I'm sorry that you've had such a negative experience with daddies.  If I were you, I'd focus on the parts of being little, and being in the ddlg community, that gave you that initial joy.  Focus on your little side and nurturing that part of yourself.

 

When it comes to interacting with a daddy then take lots of time to get to know the person in question.  Maybe just avoid that kind of thing just now and make friends with littles! 

[Lovingukdaddy]

It's hard when a bubble is burst. I've had a similar situation.

 

I would however suggest that you remember that this relationship is like any other. You get good and bad people. If you met a bad person in real life, would you simply never love or want to be ina relationship again. No, you take some time to get your head straight and move on. Don't let 2 people spoil it for you

[Guest Chrisx]

It's for sure understandable to be more weary after something like that happens. 

Having a bad experience is a possibility in any relationship one pursues and it's not fun, just one problem...

 

You're the one stuck deciding whether that crushes you or motivates you. 

 

You might not believe it but you'll meet the right person that'll be responsive to your little side while providing the love & respect that goes into a relationship. 

Just, not if this moment kills off your motivation to seek a healthy/fulfilling relationship all-together.

 

Focus on you, what makes you happy, maybe wait on the 'being with somebody' part for now. 

Edited September 24, 2019 by Chrisx

[SmolAetherr]

im going to toss my penny in, my first two littles had a profoundly negative impact on me to the point where i spent atleast 3-4 months away from the forums and ddlg community

 

but im back, in all honesty i couldnt stay away for long and trashy people dont get to spoil a fundamental part of my identity that easily.

Edited September 24, 2019 by Aetherr

[DaddysPrettyPrincess]

I'm sorry you went through a negative experience but some people are just jerks and like to ruin others parade, although those two ruined the initial experience for you, you shouldn't allow them to ruin an important part of yourself, if taking a break from daddies is what you need then do it but don't lose all hope, most people you meet won't be the same way . My advice to you though is see who they really are a person before the possibility of being in a DDlg relationship, the right one won't rush it.

 

I hope you feel better soon 

Edited September 24, 2019 by DaddysPrettyPrincess