Needing advice!

[GrittyPastels]

Hello everyone! I'm new to Little Space, but the problem is that it's really difficult for me to get into it. I've tried coloring and watching movies, but I don't know if I'm doing it right.. I still live with my parents and it makes it even harder for me. Could someone give me some advice that might help me get more immersed in my Little Space?? 

[Guest mjducky]

my experience with little space: i cannot force it upon myself. it's a headspace you need to ease into, and each person's little space may be different from another's.

there is no right or wring way to be little! don't fret yourself with whether or not you are doing it right.

 

for example i get into little space with warm blankets and warm milk, but not pacifiers and colouring!

 

i suggest researching other childlike activities you could try, but since you live with your parents, you would have to keep it on the down low.

 

perhaps cute music that could ease you into a smaller headspace? or watching kids tv shows on your personal phone or computer so that your parents dont see you doing it.

 

hope this helps! feel free to send me a pm if you want any more tips and tricks :-)

[Guest anjie_panda]

Hii!! I'm Anjie! I'm also a little who lives with her parents still and I find it very hard to slip into little space when they're around. I've been a little for about 2 years and I'm 18. My advice is, even if it's not a Mommy or Daddy, try to find someone like an irl friend who will accept you as a little and start leaning to them more if you go into little space. Getting into little space is different for everyone but I for one go into little space when I feel super comfortable with a person or find something really childish. Like for example, when I snuggle my panda stuffies, most of the time, I'll slip into little space. Ease into it. Never try to force your little self out. Try and let it happen naturally.

[Guest ~GlitterUnicorn~]

Hmmm maybe do some exploring and trying out different things to see what makes you little! Maybe it's eating chidlish foods, or going to the park! I would just feel things out and see what happens

[Guest Acenya]

I agree with @vanillababy - you can't really force little space, but there are different kind of activities that might help you trigger the feeling of being little.

There are lots of topics about the subject on the forum, I dug up a few links for you, I hope they're useful!

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/2435-little-space-triggers/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/74-huge-list-of-little-activities/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4984-little-space-activities/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4338-things-that-make-you-feel-little/page-1?hl=into%20little%20space

[LittleTeacup]

Personally being with my parents doesn't stop me from getting little. They accept that sometimes I'll just talk to them in a higher pitched voice and want more childlike stuff. If I go overboard they just tell me to stop acting so babyish, which honestly helps me to not become too dependent on them. I've always been like this though and for a long time thought it was related to my ASD. So for me it's a personality trait.

 

I advise you to just do what feels natural. I don't color and rarely watch movies myself. But I like to snuggle in my blankets and walk outside admiring nature like all the pretty fall leaves. Do what you love and feel happy doing and your little self will sneak out to join in the fun!